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Victoria, welcome to the program. Hi, Dr. Laura. My question is, can somebody with a narcissistic personality style or difficult

personality style?

Oh, please, please, please do not call somebody a narcissist because you don't like them, okay?

I'm just, okay, a difficult personality style that has what seems to be traits.

I'm in, I'm in a couple of support groups for, um, difficult personality style that has what seems to be traits.

I'm in a couple of support groups for... No, no, no. No, no. I'm not going to entertain everybody's a narcissist these days.

You get into groups and women all talk about it.

I'm dating. No. Okay.

If you're... Just say, I'm in a relationship with somebody who kicks his dog three times a day.

That describes a behavior as opposed to you giving it a title, which I don't think you have enough training to do.

That's fair. Okay. I've been in a relationship with somebody for about seven months.

I have not spoken with him in about three weeks. During the course of the relationship,

there was an immediate, abrupt, you know, turning the other way and having some anger and rage.

He kicked me out of his house more than one time.

I traveled from Southern California.

Well, some reasonable, reasonable, mature, mentally healthy woman would experience that once and a half times and not go back for more.

And she can actually do that without labeling the man anything other than she doesn't want this shit in her life.

But that's up to you to decide what shit you want in your life

and what shit you don't want in your life.

You don't need to label somebody anything.

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