We all know it takes a long time to grow up, not only biologically but psychologically.

There's a saying amongst the chitris that it takes 50 years to overcome the first 20.

Here's the good news.

Unlike other species, we are not restrained by our instincts alone.

We are able to learn from our parents, our experiences, and our culture.

Here's the bad news.

Nobody matures without effort.

It doesn't happen naturally.

It takes a lot of hard work.

But what does it mean to be mature?

Good question.

So let's answer it.

I have identified five characteristics of maturity.

If you work to possess them all, you will have a happier, deeper, and more productive life.

One, taking control.

Of course, you had no choice what era you were born in, or where you were born, or who your parents are.

But with each year of childhood, you attain more and more capacity to chart your own course.

Yes, society and faith play a role, but cultivating your ability and willingness to make your own decisions expands your ability to influence how your life unfolds.

The only way to achieve maturity is to take charge of your life.

Nothing empowers you as much as exercising that control.

Refusing to act, waiting to be rescued, and seeing yourself as a victim are sure signs of immaturity.

Two, taking responsibility.

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