Welcome to Enjoying Everyday Life with New York Times best-selling author Joyce Meyer.

On today's program, Joyce will be teaching from her series, Healing the Soul of a Woman.

We've all been hurt, but we don't have to live with the pain from our past.

And guys, this message is for you too. God wants to pick up all of our broken pieces and

make us whole again. Now here's Joyce with today's

teaching. Number one thing we got to learn today, no matter how you got to where

you are, let's just say that not one bit of it was your fault, which is probably not

accurate, but let's just say that none of it was your fault, that you, the life you have

right now, the mess you're in right now is all because of things

that other people did to you and I'm sorry about that but step number one toward

wholeness is right now today you have to take 100% responsibility

for your life and where you're at. It may not be your fault that you got here,

but you're the only one that can cooperate with God for your life to get you out of here

and into the place where God wants you. So today we give up all

blaming, all self-pity, poor me, we're going to get rid of all the if-onlies.

If only I wouldn't have been abused.

If only I wouldn't have been abused, if only I wouldn't have married that guy.

If only I wouldn't have been born into such a ridiculously dysfunctional family.

If only I would have got a chance to have more education.

If only, if only.

Let me tell you something.

There's two little words in the Bible that I absolutely adore and they're called But God.

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