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The Daily Dad

It’s Only Been Given For An Hour

The Daily Dad

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Relationships, Education, Dads, Parenting, Ryan Holiday, Fatherhood, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Wisdom, Kids & Family

4.6630 Ratings

🗓️ 22 February 2024

⏱️ 2 minutes

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Summary

Seneca knew from experience. In one of the most dreadful periods of his life, he lost his livelihood, his home and then his young child. He was exiled on false charges. He buried an infant.

Fortune…she can be cruel.

As Seneca wrote to Marcia, the daughter of a prominent Roman historian, in his beautiful and moving Consolations” essays:

“Snatch the pleasures your children bring, let your children in turn find delight in you, and drain joy to the dregs without delay; no promise has been given you for this night—nay, I have offered too long a respite!—no promise has been given even for this hour.”

Two thousand years later, that hard-won reminder holds true. Nothing is promised. The future is not certain. It’s a scary world—one we’re hostages to, as we’ve said. But we can’t dwell in sadness or fear.

All we can do is hold our children tight. We must snatch the pleasures they bring us and bring them pleasures too. Drain joy to the dregs together. Enjoy the hour…because not one second more is guaranteed.

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Dad podcast, where we provide one lesson every single day to help you with your most important job, being a parent.

0:17.0

I'm Ryan Holliday, and I draw these lessons from ancient philosophy, modern psychology, practical

0:23.5

wisdom, and insights from parents just like you all over the world.

0:28.8

Thank you for listening, and we hope this helps.

0:34.1

It's only been given for an hour.

0:54.2

Seneca knew from experience in one of the most dreadful periods of his life, he lost his livelihood, his home, and then his young child. He was exiled on false charges. He buried an infant. Fortune. She can be cruel. This is why a Seneca would write in a beautiful and moving essay known as one of his consolations that he would write to Marcia, the daughter of a prominent Roman historian.

1:00.0

He wrote, snatch the pleasures your children bring, let your children in turn find delight in

1:05.9

you, and drain joy to the dregs without delay. No promise has been given you for this night.

1:12.5

Nay, I have offered too long a respite. No promise has been given even for this hour.

1:18.6

Two thousand years later, that hard one reminder holds true. Nothing is promised. The future is

1:23.5

uncertain. It's a scary world, one that we're hostages to, as we've said, but we can't dwell

1:29.0

in sadness or fear. All we can do is hold our children tight. We must snatch the pleasures

1:35.0

they bring us and bring them pleasures to. Drain joy to the dregs together. Enjoy the hour

1:41.0

because not one second more is guaranteed.

1:54.0

Hey, you're listening to the Daily Dad podcast, one meditation a day inspired to help you do your most important job,

2:03.4

which is be a great father. These are meditations inspired by ancient wisdom, psychological

2:09.4

research, and just great strategies from normal dads just like you. Thanks for listening.

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