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The Daily Dad

It's OK to Be Ambitious

The Daily Dad

Daily Dad

Dads, Society & Culture, Education, Parenting, Wisdom, Ryan Holiday, Kids & Family, Relationships, Fatherhood, Self-improvement

4.6630 Ratings

🗓️ 7 September 2020

⏱️ 3 minutes

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Summary

"You have things you want to do in this life. Maybe you want to write a book or you’re in the middle of starting a company. Maybe you’re trying to win a championship or run for president. 

You want to be a great dad too, but is it possible to do all these things at once?"

Ryan talks about the pressure to accomplish great things as well as be a great a parent, and how those two desires mesh, in today's Daily Dad Podcast.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Daily Dad podcast where we provide one lesson every day to help you with your

0:14.1

most important job being a dad. These are lessons inspired by ancient philosophy, by practical

0:20.3

wisdom, and insights from dads all over the world.

0:24.5

Thank you for listening, and we hope this helps.

0:33.5

It's okay to be ambitious.

0:35.6

You have things you want to do in this life. Maybe you want it to write a book or you're in the middle of starting a company. Maybe you're trying to win a championship or run for president. You want to be a great dad too, but is it possible to do all these things at once? We've talked before about how family comes first, which makes these goals quite difficult.

0:55.0

Is it a moral quandary? Is it even possible to yearn for personal achievement and still also

1:00.2

desire to be a good parent? Is it unfair to your family that you have another love, your career,

1:05.8

your public service, your ambition? For most of history, it's been women who have felt these

1:10.8

conflicting desires the most.

1:12.9

Fathers have been encouraged, expected even to look outside the home for fulfillment and recognition.

1:18.7

But still, even prime ministers and billionaires have felt the tension of serving two masters.

1:24.6

In her autobiography, Margaret Thatcher quotes Irene Ward, a pioneering British

1:29.6

female politician. While the home must always be the center of one's life, she said,

1:35.0

it should not be the boundary of one's ambition. Well said, even though the word should,

1:41.1

feels a tad judgmental. You're allowed to think bigger. It's okay to have a career.

1:46.1

It's okay to want to be great at that career. It's okay to strive to change the world.

1:51.7

Because in these things, as long as you share them and open them up to a wider view,

1:57.3

are teaching your kids. You are teaching them about hard work, about doing what's right,

2:01.8

about fulfilling one's potential, about being of use to others. Just make sure that the home

2:07.0

remains the center of your life. Make sure that you are stating with your actions to your children

2:11.9

what is actually most important to you and hint that should be them.

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