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🗓️ 18 April 2022
⏱️ 41 minutes
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In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa have a conversation about radical responsibility in relationships.
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0:00.0 | You ready to knock one out? |
0:04.0 | You ready to knock one out? |
0:06.0 | Thought you were asking me something else? |
0:08.0 | You said that you would like to do podcasts at night once in a while on the couch. |
0:15.0 | No Instagram live, no cameras in your face, you just want to hang out and have |
0:21.0 | meaningful conversations on the couch. |
0:24.8 | I thought you were gonna let me know. |
0:26.9 | I was gonna be prepared. |
0:28.2 | Well, if you wanna have honest and raw conversations, |
0:31.0 | I can't announce that that's what we're going to do or they're going to feel very... |
0:34.8 | Yes you can. For some people they need to be prepared. You know I was thinking about today? |
0:41.2 | So... Today, your day of birth birth it is my birthday today. |
0:45.0 | I was thinking about when I grew up there were families and I played with their kids and I think I was like 9 to 12. |
0:58.0 | These were the wonder years and I remember thinking, oh man my best friend is dad's an alcoholic. |
1:05.0 | Oh man, like I've never seen them be intimate, they seem unhappy, they were broke, |
1:11.0 | mom was struggling, mom was looking for cigarette butts in the gutter because they |
1:15.8 | can afford any. Like her highlight was a little chocolate called a cup of gold, a cup of gold in the 80s. |
1:24.6 | It was like a little Reese's peanut butter cup. |
1:27.2 | And he was a house mover. |
1:28.8 | He moved houses and they had seven children. |
1:32.3 | And at that time, through the lens of a nine-year-old I just thought like |
1:36.7 | their parents are weird and fucked up and blah blah but now now I well it's not that it's sad, I see how the movie was made. I can see now as a parent |
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