IT’S NOT ALWAYS ABOUT YOU | WHERE WIVES WAR

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Self-improvement, Education

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🗓️ 5 February 2026

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Hey Baes! In today’s video, we’re talking about something that shifts perspective — “It’s Not Always About You | Inside the Mind of a Dismissive Avoidant.”This word is about understanding emotional patterns, emotional distance, and what it means when someone operates from avoidance instead of vulnerability. We’re breaking down discernment, emotional responsibility, and why everything isn’t always personal — even when it feels that way.Grab your journal and let’s get into today’s word. If this word blesses you, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!⸻If you feel led to sow A Seed:Cash App: $thechristianbaePaypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/TheChristianBaeZelle/Apple Pay: TheChristianBae@gmail.com⸻Things mentioned in today’s video:– Dismissive avoidant patterns– Emotional distance in relationships– Discernment vs personalization– Emotional responsibility– Relationship awareness⸻Upcoming EventsWhere Wives War Workshop (In Person)https://thechristianbae.com/products/where-wive-war-workshopWhere Wives War Workshop (Virtual)https://thechristianbae.com/products/where-wives-war-pt-3-replayWhere Wives War Mentoringhttps://thechristianbae.com/products/where-wives-war-1-1-mentorship-application-required⸻♡ F O L L O W M Y S O C I A L S ♡Instagram: https://instagram.com/thechristianbae_?utm_medium=copy_linkTikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRDTxdR2/⸻Business inquiries: TheChristianBae@gmail.comPO Box 670192Coral Springs, FL 33067

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0:29.7	Hey y'all. I'm back on another episode. Ready to tell y'all my business. Welcome back to the
0:34.8	Christian-made TV where Christen Culture Connect. I pray that you guys to have it a wonderful day.
0:38.3	We are back with another episode of Where Wives War.
0:40.3	And today we're talking about it's not always about you. We're going to be diving into the mindset, y'all, okay? This is what God is placing in my heart to talk about, so that's what we're going to do. I need y'all to know in 2006, whatever topics, whatever word God gives me, I'm just going to do it.
0:55.3	It doesn't have to be in the series whatever topics, whatever word God gives me, I'm just going to do it.
0:55.4	It doesn't have to be in the series, in an order, and a nothing.
0:58.2	We're just going based on the Holy Spirit for whoever needed, okay? Obedience over everything else. So today we're talking about, it's not always about you. God placed it on my heart to make this video about emotional capacity because a lot of times what people fail to realize because I know
1:11.7	that this happens to men and women people feel to realize that sometimes when people exit
1:16.3	your life or treat you a certain type of way it's really not about you it's not always about
1:21.8	you if a person has ever ghosted you distance themselves from you stop talking to you made you
1:26.4	feel like you were too much.
1:33.4	Sometimes it's not about you being too much. It's about where they are and the capacity that they have. And I feel like God is placing on my heart to make this episode because this will help women
1:37.6	have a wife-like mindset because whether you're somebody in you're single and you're dating
1:42.6	and want to be married or whether you're somebody and you're already married, you need to understand that every season that your
1:48.0	significant other goes through or somebody that you're dating going through is not always about
1:51.7	you. Sometimes their actions is a reflection of where they are emotionally. So the first thing
1:57.0	that God wanted me to talk about in this episode is how attraction does not equal capacity.
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