What's up real ones? Welcome back to the relationship podcast, but we're bringing the real back to relationships. Yes, sir. I'm

I'm Asha Steele. I'm Devon Steele. And we're so excited that you guys are tuning in today with us.

Yeah, because today's topic, we're going to be discussing competitions within relationships.

Are you creating a true partnership with your partner or are you creating a rivalry?

Let's discuss. So before we get into today's discussion, you got something you want to keep it real about?

So, before we get into today's discussion, you got something you want to keep it real about?

Most definitely.

For sure. What you got keep it real about. No because I know later in this

episode we're going to get into the topic of you know me being on Dr. Field this past week But there was something that happened at the show

that I wanted to keep it real about.

Because the topic of the show was marriage,

is marriage dead, like what's going on

when people's thoughts on you know building a family and

getting married and I was sitting next to somebody in the crowd when I first got

there and her story came up first and me and her got to talking and she was telling me how marriage is a goal for her

but she doesn't know when it's going to happen, right?

So sometimes it's just, it's going to happen, right? So sometimes it's just it's frustrating and I told like I understand I feel like most people

Look at marriage as a goal.

Like even though I didn't grow up, like marriage ago I want to create a family.

But I've never, I think the problem is that it is a goal for a lot of people that people just want to

check off. It doesn't even matter if they're getting married to the right person.

They just want to say I got married. They want to show their friends, they want to

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