What's up, guys? Welcome back to It's Meetings Live exclusively on Radio Andy Channel 102. As always, this is our weekly time to talk to each other with a live Ask Me Anything. I want to talk to all of you right now, so call me it's 844305-305-2639. Okay, let's talk to Morgan. Hey, Morgan, what's up? Oh, my God, thanks. Hi, thanks for calling. What's going on? Wow, this is so cool.

Okay, wow, this is my first time calling. I'm so glad you got through. Yeah. So basically,

I have been dating my boyfriend now for about like a month and a half. Okay. And like he's the first

guy I've dated in a long time. He's,

he's great. Like I met him and he just basically exceeded all my expectations, like,

asked me to be his girlfriend. I didn't have to bring up, you know, a relationship talk. Like,

it just has been pretty, like, seamless, I would say. And recently in the past, like, I'd say

months, well, we've only been dated for like a month and a half officially. But he asked me to be his girlfriend and then he went to Europe for a week and a half. While he was in Europe, everything was great. He was with his family, whatever, not worried about that. And when he came back, I'm sure he was jet lagged and everything, but he was just kind to being like distant after I saw him for the first time first time. And basically, I brought it up to him because I'm, you know, trying to work on my communication. And he just said, you know, I'm like jet lagged, but I'm just trying to get used to the fact that, you know, now I have like someone else that I need to, like, not pay pay attention but just like someone else in my

life other than just me like it's different than being single and I was like okay like that's fair

like even though when we were dating before that I don't know if that is fair how how old are you guys

sorry if you said um I'm 29 and he's 28 and wait sorry you said his first relationship or no? Well, he had a long-term relationship two years ago. Okay. That was like pretty serious. He lived with her. So he's not. And then he never had a girl. Yeah. Okay. But he's not like 17. So. No, yeah. He is 28. I don't know that that's fair. I mean, I don't know. Yeah, I know. So, like, I said, okay, like, I understand because I guess I'm understanding. Sure, sure. And then he, but now it's like last weekend he was at a concert this weekend, like, his friends are coming into town. And so I'm seeing him tonight. And then, like, he's busy Thursday, Friday, Saturday Saturday, Sunday and basically I've only seen him like two times in the last two weeks. I don't know. I just

can't tell like I guess maybe that's not fair. No. And is that weird like he's making it seem like

everything's fine, but maybe it's not. Listen, listen, if you feel like it's not, then it's not. Like, that's what I want you to understand. Like, if you feel like something's off, then it's off because that's how you feel. Do you know what I mean? Like, yeah, even if he says it's not. Yeah. And also, like, I just don't really buy that. Like, oh, he's 28 and he said, oh, all of a sudden i have to like you know think about someone

like okay i don't really get that because he didn't have a problem with it before and he was

acting normal before so there's been a shift in his behavior so clearly he's capable of it clearly

it's just something is weird right now right and. And for me, I think, like, something I'm very focused on lately in my own life,

and I think I want all of you guys to really think about is how someone makes you feel.

And if someone makes you feel needy, or if someone makes you feel clingy or I don't know just off that's not good right

because it doesn't really matter you know what he's saying it's like how do you feel and if you

feel needy with your own boyfriend that's not good and he should not make you feel needy your boyfriend should make you feel. And if you feel needy with your own boyfriend, that's not good. And he should not make you feel needy. Your boyfriend should make you feel sexy, wanted, desired, uh, amazing, sparkly, all those things, but not needy and not, and not you sitting there being like, oh, I mean, you know, I guess it's fine, like, that I'm only seeing him twice in a week.

And it's just like, I don't know.

I don't know.

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