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call because I want to talk to everybody. Oh, I literally have been counting down

the seconds to talk to you all since last week's show. This is truly my favorite

hour of my week. Despite my slight hangover, went to a fancy, schmancy vanity

fair party last night and it was very fun and we're off to New York right after

this. So busy day for the team, but I just am so excited. So let's get into it.

I think we are going to talk to Alex in New Jersey first. Hello Alex. Hi, how are you?

Hi, I'm good. How are you? Oh, sorry, Alex, you have a bad connection. No. Hello, can you hear me? Oh, shoot. I think we're gonna. Oh, sorry, Alex. We can't hear you. We're gonna go to Rose and Ohio. Sorry, Alex. Hi, Rose. How are you?

Hey, thanks. I'm awesome. How are you? I'm good. I'm excited to talk to you. I am more excited to talk to you. So my question is that I'm, you know,

a career or an adult grown and been dating this guy for a while. He isn't just quite there yet and I'm struggling to sort of figure out. Do I wait

around to see if he can level up or do I need to sort of cut ties? He's really nice by all accounts treats me well, but I just don't

know if he's going to be able to keep up. And that's, you know, the hard thing I'm struggling with. Yeah. So, so when you say he's not quite there yet, do you mean in his career? Do you mean like he doesn't

matter? And I just don't think that that's where it's focuses. And how old is he? And how old is he? I'm almost 29. Okay. Okay. And he's just not like a career oriented guy. No, he just, you know, he says he is, but his weekends are spent watching

sports and drinking and doing things like that, which are great and fun. But, you know, not what I'm really looking for. Right. And how long have you guys been dating?

Almost a year. Oh, wow. That's a long time. Yeah.

Oh, I, are you in love with him? That's the million dollar question. You're not. I can tell from your voice.

I don't know. Okay. I think if it's, if it's, if it's an, I don't know, it's a, you don't. I think that listen, you know, it's important to, you don't have to have the same

ambition as your partner. I don't think, but it's important to want to spend time and money the same way. And kind of it's important at this age to, to really align on what you want. Right.

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