It’s Her Job To Get Noticed. It’s His Job To Make Dates Happen
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 31 January 2026
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhy women work to get noticed but men must make the dates happen.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who’s new to my work. He got dumped by his girlfriend of 11 months because he got weak, emotional and lost his masculine center. After 90 days of no contact she started showing up in his life and messaging him. However, he dithered and hesitated and never made dates. When he finally tried she declined. He wonders what to do now.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
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| 0:30.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's |
| 0:35.1 | newsletter is going to be, it's her job to get noticed. |
| 0:38.7 | It's his job to make dates happen. |
| 0:41.8 | So this particular email is from viewer who's new to my work. |
| 0:45.4 | And so he's 30 and his ex-girlfriend is 20. |
| 0:49.5 | And they were dating for about 11 months. |
| 0:51.2 | He says he got dumped because he got weak, he got emotional, |
| 0:56.1 | and he lost his masculine center, which is pretty common. A lot of guys have that issue. |
| 1:01.8 | That's usually why they end up coming to my work, starting to read the book. And so I think |
| 1:05.6 | he said he's been through the book one time. And so what's interesting is like he has a daily routine where he walks. |
| 1:13.6 | I guess he walks by the place where his ex-girlfriend worked. |
| 1:18.3 | And after 90 days, no contact, she kind of knew his routine. |
| 1:21.7 | And she would kind of come out, accidentally run into him. |
| 1:26.8 | And eventually some point they start texting. |
| 1:30.3 | She's texting them, memes and stuff like that. |
| 1:33.0 | So if you've been through seven principles getting an ex-back and you're in a similar situation, |
| 1:37.7 | the reason why you go no contact is because you want sex and romance and she doesn't want to be with you anymore. |
| 1:45.1 | Maybe she offers friendship or something like that. |
| 1:48.4 | But you never try to keep somebody who doesn't want to keep you. |
| 1:50.9 | You're not going to sit around trying to change your mind because it takes two to tango. |
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