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The Longest Shortest Time

It's A Real Mother, Part 1: Governor Mom

The Longest Shortest Time

Hillary Frank | Realm

Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Parenting, Kids & Family

4.84.2K Ratings

🗓️ 1 November 2017

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Discrimination against mothers in the workplace is illegal but it still happens every day. We launch our four-part series, It’s A Real Mother, with YOUR stories of discrimination. Plus, we meet a mom who faced discrimination from... the entire country. See our video and find out how you can help at itsarealmother.com. And share YOUR stories using #itsarealmother. This episode is brought to you by Icon Undies (code: LONGEST), Spice Islands, littleBits and Fracture.

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0:00.0

When Jane Swift was 25, she did something most women her age don't do. She ran for

0:12.8

State Senate. This was back in 1990 in Western Massachusetts. One day, before the election,

0:19.4

she went to a small town in her district to talk to a newspaper reporter.

0:23.0

It was a little bit of an older guy, and we sat down and we started going through the

0:27.6

typical biographical data. You know, how old was I, where was I from? Progress to, was

0:34.7

I married? Jane was used to that question. Her answer was no.

0:39.0

This is when it started to get a little odd. This reporter said to me, did I have a boyfriend?

0:45.3

At this point, I felt a little bit like my mother may have called him, because this was

0:49.2

a big concern of hers as well. I was actually pretty proud of myself because for the first

0:54.4

time, and many years, I was able to answer yes. But his next question was really my first

1:03.0

clue to just how strange my future would become as a young woman candidate seeking office,

1:12.1

because when I told him yes, rather than going on to talk about taxes and my plans for

1:17.6

local aid and improving public education, he asked me how serious my relationship was.

1:24.4

Jane was like, why does he care? But I said, well, I'm not sure, but if you want to call

1:29.1

and ask him and let me know, that would be great. It did not dissuade him. He said to me,

1:36.2

well, at some point, I assume you're going to get married. And if you get married and

1:41.8

start a family, what will that mean for your constituents in your career? And the

1:47.5

state senate? I was 25 years old, and I was probably for one of the first times in my

1:57.0

life rendered speechless. I had not actually thought about that question all that much,

2:06.8

and I couldn't believe he was asking me. But as the Google search that you may have done

2:14.5

on me will prove that was a question that would become pretty consistently asked of me

2:20.6

and become a reality in my political life. But that was the first clue. The first clue

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