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Islamic Mahr Contracts: Why Mahr is a Muslim Woman's Right w/ Dr. Tamara Gray

Unswtnd + Unfltrd

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Relationships, Depression, Society & Culture, Women, Health & Fitness, Self Care, Islam, Mental Illness, Politics, Sisterhood. Life Coach, Faith, Anxiety, Divorce, Mental Health, Relationship Advice, Religion & Spirituality, Marriage, Muslim Women, Muslim, Taboo

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🗓️ 31 March 2021

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

The topic of Mahr at times can be so nerve racking when discussed between potential spouses. Questions such as 'how much one should ask for' and 'if there's a limit for the amount requested' are at the top of everyone's list. Often times, we can be so quick in discussing the details of the wedding hall and guest list, but do we also make it a priority to reserve the time for serious discussions such as financial compatibility, especially when it comes to Mahr?Western media likes to portr...

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The Maher has often been translated as dowry. I personally reject that translation because in European countries in the West, the dowry was a bride price.

0:28.4

What it is is a financial gift.

0:30.9

It is a giving at the occasion of the contract of marriage.

0:35.7

And that amount is not limited on the high end, nor is it limited

0:41.7

on the low end, but it must occur.

0:44.9

So when we know that it must occur, I believe it should give us pause, and we should say

0:49.2

to ourselves, okay, this is something really important.

0:52.0

This is something that is a critical part

0:55.0

of the beginning of a marriage.

0:57.3

Islamically, I would say that there is financial stability

1:00.9

for women.

1:01.8

The maher starts that process out

1:04.2

by giving a woman financial security.

1:23.5

Oftentimes, we can be so quick in discussing the details of the wedding hall and guest list.

1:28.1

Yet we rarely reserve the time for serious discussions such as financial compatibility,

1:33.4

especially when it comes to Mahid. You're listening to Unsweeten and Unfiltered the podcast,

1:39.1

episode 9 of season 3. The topic of Mahad at times can be so nerve-wrecking when discussed by potential spouses. Questions such as how much one should ask for and is there a limit for the amount

1:43.1

requested or at the top of everyone's list.

1:45.4

In today's episode, we will be joined by Dr. Gray, founder of Rabata, to discuss the details of the Islamic contract and why it's obligatory between partners.

1:58.0

If you're like me, then you may have struggled with the concept of Mahd at one point or another in your life.

2:07.7

Western media likes to portray it as a dowry or a bride price, and the lasting woman want is

2:12.4

for a man to place a price tag on her at his own discretion.

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