Can you have too much playful banter and teasing?

She challenges me on everything.

So, yes, you can.

If you're trying to make a joke out of every single thing that happens

and everything comes out of your mouth,

then she's going to start to think this guy's kind of weird.

That's not normal.

Everything is not that funny.

And it comes off as you're kind of being like a robot. Now, what I talk about in my book is

90% of the time you should be the charming James Bond. And then 10% of the time you should

treat her like a bratty little sister and bust her balls. Because if you continually

bust her balls, eventually she starts to feel like you're putting her down on purpose and then she starts to take that

personally and that's why it's so important to do that kind of stuff in person and not try to be

funny over text especially with somebody you just met because she probably doesn't know your

sense of humor you don't know what she's like she might get butt hurt she might take

something wrong. But the, if she's constantly breaking your balls over things, it may have been because you displayed weakness. And women will try to intimidate you. They'll often feign that they don't like what you said or what you did that give you dirty looks or whatever

or they look at you like how could you and in that case if you know you didn't do anything wrong

or there's nothing stupid it's like she may feign disapproval and that's a test of your strength

a lesser guy's going to get upset and feel insecure and then start trying to please and apologize

and wonder what's wrong whereas a guy an alpha type is going to use it as an opportunity

to make fun of her and you know if she looks at you like like yeah you got to go to the bathroom

or something you're like what's with the look on your

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