Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery, BTR.org. I'm Anne. I'm sure you remember what it was like when you were searching for help, maybe for your husband, hoping to find the right program or therapist. That's why I started podcasting. I supported my husband through seven years of pornography addiction recovery and not one therapist during that time told me I was experiencing emotional

and psychological abuse and sexual coercion. I didn't want any other woman on the planet to be in

the dark. If you're like the majority of my listeners, you're experiencing the type of abuse that's

invisible and difficult to wrap your head around. Your husband is using porn or having

affairs or lying to you, and you're getting the same bad advice about how to improve communication

or your relationship. If you need support from women who totally understand, check out our daily

group session schedule at BTR.org slash group. We'd love to see you in a session today. One simple, anonymous way to help spread the word

is to click, follow, or subscribe to the Betrayal Trauma Recovery podcast on your favorite

podcasting app. While you're there, every five-star rating helps make this podcast more visible

and will help save other women from getting the wrong kind of help, like a couple

program that will make this type of abuse worse. For those of you who follow or subscribe to this

podcast, thank you so much. Your support means so much to me. Today I have Lynn Marie Cherry,

who is an engaging speaker and the author of Keep Walking 40 Days to Hope and Freedom After Betrayal.

Welcome, Lynn.

Thank you so much for having me.

So, Lynn, you decided to share your betrayal story by writing a book.

Why did you decide to write about your story?

You know, it's the book you don't dream of writing when you're a little girl in sixth grade

thinking you'd like to write someday.

Yeah.

The book really was birthed out of my journey and the pain that I experienced.

It was so difficult and so altering.

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