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Critics at Large | The New Yorker

Is “The Golden Bachelor” Too Good to Be True?

Critics at Large | The New Yorker

The New Yorker

Society & Culture

4.4679 Ratings

🗓️ 16 November 2023

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Reality television is all about artifice, and contestants on “The Bachelor” often seem more interested in becoming influencers than in finding a spouse—but “The Golden Bachelor,” a new spinoff starring a seventy-two-year-old widower named Gerry, has been hailed for its surprising sincerity. On this episode of Critics at Large, the staff writers Vinson Cunningham, Naomi Fry, and Alexandra Schwartz discuss how the show eschews—and, at times, reinforces—the tropes that have polarized viewers of the ABC franchise, and what a genre known for its phoniness can reveal about actual human emotions and experiences. The hosts consider other depictions of sex and romance at this stage of life, including Philip Roth’s memorable rendering of an older man’s libido in “The Dying Animal” and HBO’s “And Just Like That . . . ,” a rare look at older women’s erotic prospects. Then, they take a step back to examine how series like “The Bachelor” have shaped our conception of love stories writ large. “The Golden Bachelor” ’s insistence on the vitality of its contestants can feel like a step forward, but what does it mean that the show is so fixated on what Schwartz calls “a second teen-agerdom”? “The boomers set a model for what it is to be young that persists for all the generations that have followed,” she says. “Now here they are again, saying, ‘We’re here; yes, we’re older; and we want to get old in our own way.’ ”


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0:00.0

Welcome to Critics at Large, a podcast from The New Yorker.

0:06.7

I'm Nomi Fry.

0:07.7

I'm Vincent Cunningham.

0:08.9

And I'm Alex Schwartz.

0:10.3

Hello, everyone.

0:11.5

Hey.

0:11.9

Hi.

0:13.1

We are staff writers at The New Yorker, and each week we make sense of what's happening in the culture right now and how we got here.

0:20.4

So this may come as a huge surprise to the two of you.

0:24.2

Dallas.

0:24.9

You know, I'm not the most up to date when it comes to the wide world of reality television.

0:29.6

No.

0:30.3

I'm not.

0:31.2

That's shocked.

0:32.2

Yeah.

0:32.5

Scandalized.

0:33.0

Yes.

0:33.8

Yes.

0:34.4

I'm not.

0:34.9

I wouldn't count myself a member of Bachelor Nation in a phrase that I've recently learned as a thing.

0:42.3

So, so Alex, tell us, why, why is that, do you think?

0:45.8

What is it about reality television that you're not super into?

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