You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize

your pleasure in libering the conversations around sex.

Your kids are home from school. You thought that your kids are back at school right now.

They're still not back at school. No, they're still there. They're still home. What do

you want? What patterns are repeating for you? Have you find yourself settling in relationships

that don't work for you? He's that boyfriend material. I'm exosities. That boyfriend

material he hasn't dated in 15 years so he says his daughter's 20. Like to me,

couples who don't argue and don't have conflict have bigger problems than many of us.

So, he needs time for some conflict.

He needs to be a non-competational type of person. I mean, he tries to avoid controversy at all costs.

What how's that going?

Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex. Eyes that mock our sacred

institutions. Betrubize they call them in a fight on days.

Today is Kiss and Make Up Day. So, it got me thinking about those relationships.

Have you been in one of those relationships where you are constantly

fighting and then making up and then fighting again and then you actually get into

like this toxic cycle where the best times are when you're making up?

We call those toxic relationships, which is a term that's been thrown around a lot

toxic relationships dating and narcissists. Somebody who is emotionally unavailable.

But what do all those terms mean? What does it mean if you're with somebody who's

really unhealthy or you're in a consistent dating pattern and you just say,

everyone I meet is emotionally unavailable or I keep dating narcissists.

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