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Coach Corey Wayne

Is She Girlfriend Material Or Just Friends With Benefits?

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6532 Ratings

🗓️ 14 October 2025

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos, full viewer questions podcasts & The 3% Man & Mastering Yourself Study Group Podcasts with the girls where we discuss the content of both books in depth:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeHow to determine if she’s girlfriend material or just friends with benefits.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 28 year old viewer who was dating an 18 year old girl. Over time he let himself go, gained weight and she told him she was no longer attracted to him. Now they’re back in contact and she is open to being friends with benefits, but he’s focused on more. I tell him what to do instead.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1

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0:30.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's

0:36.1

newsletter is going to be, is she girlfriend material

0:39.1

or just friends with benefits? Well, this particular email is from a 28-year-old viewer. He was dating

0:46.6

somebody who was 18. I assume he lives in like a conservative country, probably from a betting man, maybe like in the Middle East

0:56.0

or something like that. So he's a little bit like James Bond. And however, he says over time,

1:02.8

he let himself go, gained a bunch of weight. And then she told him she was no longer attracted

1:07.5

to him. And so they kind of stopped seeing each other for a while, and now they're back in contact.

1:13.4

And she told him exactly what she thought about the fact that he'd let himself go.

1:18.4

And then she suggested that, because I guess the sex wasn't very good, that they could just

1:22.5

practice having sex so he could get better.

1:26.2

And so he's clearly focused on wanting more from her.

1:30.1

So he writes an email asking my opinion. He says, hello, Corey. I broke up with my ex,

1:38.0

which is my first real relationship for me, and I'm her first guy. She's 18, and I'm 28. Spending time with her was problematic because

1:48.6

she had to sneak out to be with me due to cultural and social reasons. I had to drive to her and

1:57.2

back and sadly it fucked with my sleep schedule so i would sleep for just a couple of hours a day

2:03.5

instead of at least six and i couldn't perform the gym work and otherwise i work out a lot

2:09.7

what sounds like he's traveling a long way to get access to the bolog curtains. It's a lot of work.

2:20.3

I put on weight, I saw the loving, excited eyes,

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