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I've been dating a Polish girl for the past five months-ish, and everything has been going well,

except for a few small details that are mostly related to finances. Like since day one, I've

been paying for restaurants, going out like activities snacks

and everything and she directly mentioned during our conversations that this is a part of her culture

even though she was born in Canada and miami-anian I was born in Iran raised there and I've been here

like for a couple years and I know how Western culture functions and I would been here for a couple years, and I know how Western

culture functions, and I would like to kind of make sense of it. I'm also traditional, sort of,

but at the same time, I don't see the point of man paying for everything, especially in this

economy. And my question is, what is your suggestion? What should I do? Is it like a big red flag, or is it

just something that we can kind of figure it out together? Hmm. It's an interesting question.

So, uh, the marriages that I'm aware of that are high quality,

the,

and when we're dating,

we're,

you know,

courting to use an old term,

an old word,

and we're thinking about that leading toward marriage,

okay?

So that's why you would ask if this is a red flag or not.

Do I want to get involved with this person, right?

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