Is She A Classic Avoidant Or Did I Chase Her Away?
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 31 May 2026
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeHow to know if she’s a classic avoidant or if you chased her away.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who had trouble maintaining attraction with a successful woman who owns an architectural firm. He has a small business that’s a year old. She told him they could be friends with benefits until he became more successful like her. She just broke things off and he wonders if she is an avoidant or he turned her off and chased her away.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.9 | newsletter is going to be. Is she a classic avoidant or did I chase her away? So this particular |
| 0:14.6 | emails from a viewer, he had trouble maintaining attraction with a woman who is pretty successful. |
| 0:22.8 | She owns her own architectural firm. |
| 0:30.1 | And he has a small business that's about a year old. And she told him they could be friends with benefits until he became more successful like her. So recently she just broke things off |
| 0:36.6 | and he's wondering, is she just an |
| 0:38.6 | avoidant or did he turn her off and chase her away? Obviously, you guys have been following |
| 0:44.9 | for a while. You know what I'm probably going to say. Because at the end of the day, if you're |
| 0:49.0 | implementing what's in 3% man properly, your girl is always going to be chasing you and often complaining you don't |
| 0:56.5 | spend enough time with her or you don't give enough attention to her. She'll be stuck to you |
| 1:01.9 | like a suckerfish if you're doing everything right. If you're chasing a woman for attention |
| 1:08.1 | and validation and she's kind of running away like you're going to see in this |
| 1:11.7 | email, then whether she's an avoidant or not, it doesn't really matter because he's displaying |
| 1:17.1 | too much unattractive behavior and turning her off. And so a woman who technically is an |
| 1:23.0 | avoidant is going to feel smothered and she's going to stay away longer than a girl who was raised in a healthy, happy household where she really loves her dad and it was very stable. |
| 1:37.0 | So you have to have, even if she is an avoidant, you got to have self-control. |
| 1:41.8 | You got to let women come to you at their pace, no matter what their |
| 1:45.8 | attachment styles are, because this is what creates attraction. And if you violate those |
| 1:50.3 | principles, you're going to turn her off and chase her way like this guy did. It's as predictable |
| 1:55.2 | is the sun coming up in the east and setting in the west. And if you're new and you haven't read 3% man, |
| 2:01.8 | obviously it's free to read at understanding |
| 2:04.4 | relationships.com. |
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