Is Monogamy The Problem... Or Are We?

The Curious Girl Diaries

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Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.0 • 597 Ratings

🗓️ 28 March 2026

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Okay… this one? It’s sexy, smart, and just a little bit dangerous 😏🔥 I sat down with two relationship therapists who actually walk the talk—and we ripped into the real reasons desire dies in long-term love. We’re talking emotional safety, masculine leadership, why women lose respect (yep, I said it), and what secretly shuts men down in the bedroom 👀💥 We even went there on monogamy… are we failing it, or just doing it badly? If you’ve ever wondered why the spark fades—or how to bring it back without burning the whole thing down—this episode is your wake-up call. Hit play… your relationship might never feel the same 😈💋 THE PRIVATE PODCAST IS HERE! GO TO ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.thecuriousgirldiaries.com/exclusive⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TO SIGN UP! To learn more about Matt & Rebeca, go to: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://alignedwithlove.net/ https://www.instagram.com/mattandrebecaatalignedwithlove/ https://www.facebook.com/alignedwithlove Learn how to master your hard ons and satisfy your partner every time, go to: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.erikeverhard.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and get 30% off when you use the code CURIOUSGIRL at checkout. To learn more about the ancient sex technique of Pompoir go to:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.gohddess.com/curiousgirl⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and get 25% off your order! Thank you for supporting my affiliates who help keep this show FREE: To master hand jobs, and rock your partner’s world, go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.rockthebedroom.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and use the code CURIOUSGIRL10 at checkout for a 10% discount! Honeypot CBD Lube (I HIGHLY recommend this!) Click⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and use code CURIOUS10 for 10% off your purchase! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey everyone, welcome to The Curious Girl Diaries podcast. I'm Layla London, aka The Curious Girl.
0:09.2	Now just to let you know, this podcast is not suitable for work. It's also not suitable for
0:15.0	anybody under 18. But the rest of you consenting adults, let's get ready to talk about my
0:20.5	sex life, sex in general,
0:22.9	and everything in between, an explicit, raunchy, fun detail.
0:28.6	All right, here we go.
0:34.2	Where do you see men self-sabotaging the most when it comes to intimacy?
0:39.3	Guys are scared to really show up and to lead in the way that they would want to lead.
0:44.3	What happens is that the feminine partner doesn't feel safe because their feelings have been dismissed.
0:52.3	I think what men just don't realize is how we translate this action in our female brain
0:58.8	translates to, I'm not safe.
1:00.7	And when we're not safe, then there's a whole lot of shit that's not going to happen in that relationship.
1:06.2	How easy is it to continue being the leader when what we bring into the table isn't really appreciated
1:13.6	or accepted.
1:14.6	All movies are just so toxic because it's all about the matter.
1:18.6	And the men I feel like this is why they're so confused about our boss.
1:22.6	We want a great relationship. It's not like a lack of effort.
1:25.6	It's just this misunderstanding about what
1:27.6	that dynamic is. And that's a really common problem.
1:37.3	Hey everyone. Welcome to the Curis School Diaries podcast. I am Layla. Happy Saturday, guys. Okay, I am super excited for this one because today's
1:47.9	conversation is the perfect mix of sexy, smart, and just a little bit dangerous. I'm sitting down
1:53.7	with Matt and Rebecca, award-winning relationship therapists, founders of Aligned with Love,
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