Hey, all, it's me, Bob the Drag Queen. You're about to hear part one of an episode of Quit Playing featuring me. It's hosted by my friends who are comedians, mothers, and certified mess stirers, Jasmine W. And Amber Wallen. They mix real life talk, sharp takes, and a whole lot of foolery. When the three of us get together, you already know where it's going to go. It goes all the way there. And if you want to hear the conversation to finish, check out part two on the Perst First Studios YouTube channel. And wherever you listen to your podcast, all right, let's get into this. Hey y'all. Welcome back to Quit Playing. With Jasmine and Amber, we are comedians. And mothers. I'm'm a white thing and i'm a baby mama and i'm a

partner yeah i'm someone's partner i i i think that do i how do i feel so i don't feel like any of my

partner's that's my boyfriend although i'm not against being someone's boyfriend yeah but i feel like

i'd be like oh this my this my partner do you ask people to be in a relationship with you? Like, do you? Because I say the people like when I date, I date men and I say you have to express your love for me and then ask me to be your girlfriend. Oh, that's so cute. I love that. How often do you say no? I've never said no.

Because if you told me, express your love and then ask me to date and I do it and you go, I'm good.

I'd be like, this was a setup. It was a setup.

One time, someone asked me after two weeks and I said no I just got a relationship I already said that

and then two weeks later I said we spent every day together anyway and then I was like let's just

do it and he was like okay and then I ended up marrying that person we're divorced now but you're married

for a long time though yeah yeah yeah that person asked me too soon and I said, no, but then I can't backtrack.

It's like, honey, we might as well.

Sometimes when we end up dating, we're just like, you know what? We're dating, right? Yeah. Like, I feel like it's happening. And then I'm probably like, we should just start dating, right? Like this makes sense.

Like we are talking so much.

We're spending so much time together.

We're,

there was one guy where it was like,

it was like a situation ship for a really long time.

Mm-hmm. like this makes sense like we are talking so much we're spending so much time together we're there was one guy where it was like it was like a situation ship for a really long time and he

kind of made it clear that the situation ship was really upsetting him that it was like a situation

yes and and that I was like okay I hear that and I'm going to do my part I had I also just

got in our relationship yeah but with with Jacob and Tao we were kind of just like yeah we're definitely we're definitely just going to do my part. I had also just gotten out of relationship. Yeah. But with Jacob and Tao, we were kind of just like, yeah, we're definitely, we're definitely just going to start dating. Yeah. For sure. How long was the situation ship? Maybe two, two and a half three years. That is a long time. Right. We were situationing, you know, we were situationing for like four months, maybe, maybe longer.

Oh, okay. Gotcha. I thought after two years, it was a will, she won't she? Like, yeah, no, no, no, we were situationing for a couple of months. And then we were like, we should go ahead and, you know, make it. Make it a little bit more official. Yeah. Make it a fish. I'm a little, I'm a little less formal with stuff. Like, even when I love yous, I'm going to tell right now, Monty thinks is crazy.

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