Is it okay to let the woman make the first date?

Well, if a girl is asking you out on a first date, that is a good sign.

I wrote about some stories in 3% man where that was a case, a girlfriend of mine that,

well, she was kind of still seeing a dude that I knew. They had broken up, but they were kind of like in a friends with benefits type of phase. And I remember when we all met, she's like, oh, I got to give you my phone number. And I said to her, I was like, well, you're kind of seeing so-and-so. She's like, all right, well, give me your business card. So she took my business card and then, I don't know, I think it was like a few days later, she reaches out and she wants to come by and take me to lunch because she was in a line of business that worked well with the company that I was in at the time.

And but I could tell she liked me and she showed up for lunch and oh, man, she looked

absolutely amazing.

I can see it now.

She had beautiful reddish hair.

She had like, um, it was like a beige suede leather top.

It's like she looked absolutely incredible.

And so we end up going to lunch and then she

proceeds to tell me that what was going on. And she had kind of told me the first night we met that they were just kind of hanging out, that they weren't together. And I was like, well, hey, you're still kind of seeing him. I don't really want to get involved in all that. And then so she invited me to lunch. I think she even paid.

And so we went to lunch. And then I don't know. I was like a day or two later, she's like, hey, let's meet for drinks. So I went and I met her out for drinks. And we ended up having dinner. And I don't think I said 20 words all the time. She was just like, I mean, she was really fascinating, interesting to listen to.

She had a lot of stories.

And she was a lot of fun. And I really liked it. I was just intoxicated with her beauty. And this was the one of, there was the story of my book as we're walking out of the restaurant. and I turned, you know, I was going to walk her to where her car was. And I turned to her to ask her car was. And I was like, where's your, and then she just grabbed me and stuck her tongue in my mouth. We started making out right there in the lobby. And, and that was our second date. But she had asked me out on both of those. And she very very aggressive and me just saying hey i want to

get involved because you're still kind of seeing that dude that i used to know and and work with and

but i mean it works to your advantage so you take that as a compliment it means probably there's

a high interest in you she's asking you out on a date it's like women make it easy for you when

they really like you especially in a situation like that where you meet and she's asking you out on a date. It's like women make it easy for you when they really like you, especially in a situation like that where you meet. And she's kind of, you know, I didn't know the full story, but she kind of gave me some hints and then later filled me in that they weren't really together. But later on, I found out that she, you know, for the next three or four months, she continued to see him and continued to see me. I later found out about it.

And so she was kind of monkey branched between the two of us.

But at the end of the day, he eventually faded away.

And we had a lot of fun together.

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