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Seeing Other People

Is Honesty The Best Policy & Is Ghosting Ever Okay?

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5 • 608 Ratings

🗓️ 23 January 2024

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Tinah Ogalo, host of In Your Twentys Podcast, makes her return to the SOP stage after a long year and a half. We hear about how Tinah put dating on the back burner as she focused on her her career, what it was like navigating her FGirl phase, and how she now feels about reprioritizing dating and getting back on the apps. Tinah and I debate splitting the bill, if texting ruined dating, day vs night dates, if ghosting is ever okay, what decade we would most want to date in, and so much more. 


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Transcript

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0:00.0

This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation.

0:04.8

Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People.

0:10.1

Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing their stories.

0:16.0

Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even cry along with us as we navigate the dating scene together.

0:23.3

Hey, guys, it's Lana, and welcome back for another episode of Seeing Other People.

0:28.0

We have the most special repeat guest. Yes, it is recording. I can see yours in the reflection there. Can you see mine?

0:36.7

I can see it from there. Perfect. Okay. Guys, welcome Tina with an H. Back on to seeing other people. Woo! I'm so thrilled. Guys, favorite podcast ever. Oh, my God, stop. I think it's one of the only podcasts that, like, I still listen to. You listen? Yeah. Of course I listen.

1:14.7

I love this show. I told you I've been here since the beginning. That's true. You have. You have. So for those who don't know, Tina, Tina is, this is her second time on seeing other people. Yeah. We first recorded, we first connected in 2021. and we had, like, such an organically hilarious and fun time going on each other's podcasts. And I remember, I feel like every so often I meet somebody

1:21.3

and we just, like, click. And you were one of those people. And I feel like every time we talk

1:26.4

to each other or see each other, even if a few months go by, it's like no time goes by.

1:29.7

We don't skip a beat. And I so admire and respect and love you for that. Oh, I love and respect and admire you too. What I was going to say, the feeling is completely mutual. Are we obsessed with each other? Like, kind of. Oh, 1,000 percent. but maybe me even a little bit more than you.

1:44.1

Like, guys, the first time I reached out to. Maybe me even a little bit more than you.

2:02.6

Like, guys, the first time I reached out to Alana, it was I had like an assistant who was helping me with the podcast. And I said, I really want you to reach out to Alana Dunn from seeing other people, but I physically can't do it myself. So I begged her to email you. She was like, Tina, grow up here. I was like, no, you have to do it.

2:34.7

And honestly, shout out to Bree, because without her, this connection probably wouldn't have happened. Thanks, Brie. Anyone who's listening to this, if you have a podcast and you want to reach out, I would love to connect. I'd love to come on your show. So reach out. Email me. You are the nicest most down-to-earth person ever. So 1,000% a lot. Like, very humble too. But you're also like, you know how some people are so scary on social media that you're not sure how they would be? Yeah. You don't give off that vibe, but I was still just so nervous. You know, it's like, don't meet your idols.

2:35.7

It was me with you. Oh, my God, stop. I still don't know how to take compliments, so stop. Shut up. But keep going. No, I don't think I – I'd be so curious to know if anybody would find me, like, intimidating or scary. That would be the funniest thing in the world to me. I get very scared meeting people,

2:51.9

like, which you wouldn't know because I come out very, like, extroverted and stuff, but right

2:56.5

before I go, hi, I'm a nervous wreck. Oh my God, why? I really don't know. I think it's just,

3:03.1

I'm not very good with social settings, because I like to take in everyone's energy first and then see how I, how I have to like adapt or react. Because I'm not very good with social settings because I like to take in everyone's energy first and then see how I have to like adapt or react because I can be a lot.

3:12.8

Yeah.

3:13.0

You know?

3:13.3

Like sometimes like I go all the way in.

3:16.3

Like really there's, I've got a lot of energy.

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