Hi, everybody. Thanks for tuning into my podcast. Today, I want to talk about how to know if a guy is really into you.

And what you'll learn in this episode is that there are levels of investment that you can

get from a guy and that you can give a guy. For example, when you just meet somebody on Tinder,

you're not going to have a really high level of investment yet, and that's totally normal,

and you shouldn't expect that from him. However, as you get to know somebody, your level of investment

in that relationship, if you like each other and if you see potential in that relationship,

should gradually go up. So I'm going to give you a bunch of questions that you can ask yourself

to see what level of investment this guy is putting in your relationship? Because this is so important.

A lot of women get these levels mixed up. And they think, for example, well, he's texting me all day.

Doesn't that mean he's investing a lot in a relationship? And my answer to that would be,

if he can do it from his toilet seat, it's not an investment.

So him texting you, it doesn't really take a lot of effort. It doesn't take a lot of thought.

Even if he's giving you thoughtful responses, that's just like level one investment.

And again, that's great. And if you just started dating, you don't really

expect much more from him. But it's really important to define that as level one investment because if

you don't and you think, oh my gosh, that's a huge investment, then you're going to start making a huge

investment that he may not be ready for or at least doesn't feel like he really earned. So he's texting

you a lot and now you're clearing your schedule and you're prioritizing him over friends and family

and hobbies and work. And the problem is with most people in the world, we have a really hard time

valuing things that are very easy to acquire or very cheap.

So the less investment we have to make for something, the less we actually value that thing.

And if you're an artist or you've ever worked on any kind of project, just for fun or even for

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