Is Having A Boyfriend Embarassing?
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 10 November 2025
⏱️ 62 minutes
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Summary
Jake’s been recovering from surgery with nonstop movie marathons, while I got upsold by a facialist and found myself spiraling about Botox because everyone around me seems to be doing it. I’m also on the hunt for a new hobby now that my running era has ended (open to suggestions). This week, I’m heading up to Syracuse to speak on a college alum panel (!!). Plus, we’re diving into the viral British Vogue article asking the question: is having a boyfriend embarrassing?
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| 0:00.0 | This time last week, I was about to cross the marathon finish line. What time is it? It's like 5 o'clock. So for the last three weeks, we've talked about a specific time. I guess we've recorded at Sunday around this time three straight weeks then. You're right. It was this time next week and then it was this time yesterday probably. Yeah, yeah, exactly. And now it's this time last week. Time is weird. It is. It feels like a lot longer than a week ago, I would say. Yeah, I don't think so. A lot's happened, but nothing's happened. So much and absolutely nothing at all. We've had a weird week. We've had a weird week. Okay, we're excited. We have a great episode today. We're going to update you guys. Jake is here post-surgery in the boot, like on-camera in the boot. Really proud of him for his recovery this week. We're going to talk about what my life is going to be like now that I'm not training for the marathon, which I'm open to |
| 0:54.7 | suggestions. We'll get into that more, but anything is possible. Who knows? Will I run an Iron |
| 0:59.6 | man? Will I sign up for high rocks? Will I start knitting? Anything sourdough? High rocks? Are you not |
| 1:06.5 | scared of heights? What do you think high rocks is? Oh, I don't know. I thought it was like climbing. |
| 1:12.2 | What's Hirox? |
| 1:14.4 | It's like it's like a strength and fitness competition. |
| 1:22.2 | It's for like being a hybrid athlete. |
| 1:24.0 | So there's running, there's like all this strength stuff. |
| 1:26.4 | It's a team sport. |
| 1:27.8 | Team sport. And then they have competitions in different cities every few months. |
| 1:32.9 | Cool. Great. I will not be signing up. Not climbing. It's not impossible. I don't plan to sign up for |
| 1:40.5 | high rocks. It's something I wouldn't know about without social media. It's like the people I follow who run like also do it. And so rocks it's something i wouldn't know about without social media it's like the people |
| 1:45.0 | i follow who run like also do it and so now it's something no i'm not going to do it anyways um |
| 1:50.3 | we'll talk about what my new identity is going to be we want to talk about the viral article and |
| 1:56.1 | question of is having a boyfriend embarrassing and yeah it's going to be a good episode. |
| 2:01.6 | Before we get into it, Jake, what are you grateful for? |
| 2:07.8 | I think we can all agree. |
| 2:09.2 | It feels like everyone we know is having babies. |
| 2:11.7 | But if there's one thing I keep hearing from my friends who have actually been through it, |
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| 2:35.8 | gaps in your diet. It's also the number one best-selling prenatal and the only leading |
| 2:39.7 | one backed by its own human clinical trial. Moms taking ritual had lower overall cortisol |
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