Hi everybody, welcome to your move where we help you make better decisions and live with fewer regrets.

I'm Andy Stanley and I'll be your guide and here is a disturbing thought.

When our need to be right becomes an excuse to dismiss or mistreat those we consider less right than us,

we aren't as right as we think we are.

Actually we're just self-righteous and self-righteousness does not look good on anybody and that deserves a conversation.

So let's talk about it right here on your move.

Here's something that does not look good on anyone.

This is a basically a wardrobe option that everyone should avoid.

Self-righteous, self-righteous.

Doesn't look good on anyone.

If you know somebody who wears this, you just kind of feel it as they walk in the room.

It's like that just doesn't look good on you.

This doesn't look good on anyone.

And because I have too much experience with this as I'll share in just a minute,

I understand unfortunately that as it turns out,

the people who are self-righteous are rarely self-aware.

They don't know that when they walk in the room, when they start talking,

everybody kind of feels pushed back and a little bit condemned.

They don't know that they're awareing it.

They're wearing it and everybody knows they're wearing it, but they don't know they're wearing it.

Now, when you hear the phrase self-righteous,

we immediately think in religious terms,

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