It all started with a text that said,

I'm surprised you didn't get blueberries.

Picture the scene, my husband's death was texting me

as I was driving to pick up my older son, Zach.

I had a breast pump in a diaper bag

in the passenger seat of my car

and a client contract on my lap.

And I find myself sobbing on the side of the road.

But I remember the thoughts in my head that day

where I cannot believe my marriage

is ending over being the fifiller of my husband's smoothies.

This started me on my journey to understand

why this was happening to me and so many other women

and why time is our most valuable currency.

But from birth, we're taught to give it away for free.

I'm Eve Rodzky, author of the New York Times bestseller,

Fair Play and Find Your Unicorn Space,

activist on the gender division of labor,

attorney and family mediator.

And I'm Dr. Adidina Rukar, a Harvard physician

and medical correspondent with an expertise

on the science of stress, resilience, mental health

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