In where should we begin, I invite you to listen in on the struggles of other couples

and on the conversations that emerge between them so that you can have the conversations

that you want to have as well.

In how is work, we do the same.

We just move from the bedroom to the boardroom or to the office.

And we have these conversations at this moment that we really need to have in light of the

pandemic, of months of lockdown, of social and racial reckoning, with our co-founders,

with our colleagues, with our managers, with our partners with whom we work.

And every session of how is work, like every session of where should we begin, is a beginning

of these difficult conversations.

You can find more of us work right now, only unspotted by.

We'll be releasing episodes there every week.

How's work is an unscripted one-time counseling session focused on work.

For the purposes of maintaining confidentiality, names, employers, and other identifiable

characteristics have been removed.

But their voices and their stories are real.

I had an eight-year affair with my career.

It took a crisis for him to find out.

You've said before that sometimes the solution to our problems should be just to live better.

I'm not saying that.

I knew that I would slip and the truth would come out, so it was better that it came out

from me.

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