Intimacy Has Dropped After The Honeymoon Phase Is Over

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2022

⏱️ 25 minutes

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What you should do when the honeymoon phase is over and you’re less interested in physical intimacy.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter. And the topic of today's
0:05.4	newsletter is going to be intimacy has dropped after the honeymoon phase is over. Well, today I've got
0:12.8	an email. This is actually from a woman who is dating a guy who is read 3% man five times. He and his girlfriend are familiar with my work,
0:23.6	and they've been together for about a year. However, what she's noticed over the last few
0:31.6	months is that the intimacy is dropped. He's no longer taking the lead, creating dates, leading things to the bedroom.
0:40.2	In other words, he's gotten complacent.
0:43.4	And as I've said countless times over the years, that typically the honeymoon period lasts
0:50.3	six to 12 months, that's the infatuation, that's the elation that you feel. But it's like,
0:56.2	what happens after the newness wears off? Because the honeymoon phase does not last forever.
1:02.1	Typically, six to 12 months, and then you kind of have your normal set point. And so for her,
1:08.8	she wants it more than he does.
1:11.8	And he's gotten kind of lazy and complacent and is no longer taking the lead.
1:16.1	And so she's also not speaking up for herself and communicating what she wants,
1:21.8	which basically makes her feel like she's undesirable.
1:25.8	And so she says nothing.
1:30.6	And she feels terrible about it. and so she wants to know what she can do to help get the intimacy back together and it brings up a
1:37.1	good point because once the infatuation is gone and the euphoria is gone and
1:42.2	trying to win her over if you will or win her heart like
1:47.5	I talk about in the title of my book it's then you're left with day in and day out when you know
1:53.3	when you feel comfortable when you feel safe when you feel complacent when you feel like I got
1:57.5	this that's when you slowly get lazy. And then what you're left with
2:02.2	is effort. All relationships require effort. And that includes on days where you don't feel like it.
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