Interviewing My Best Friend about Her Heartbreak that Lead to Engagement

Happy & Healthy with Jeanine Amapola Ward

That Sounds Fun Network

Relationships, Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.8 • 2K Ratings

🗓️ 10 March 2026

⏱️ 72 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Heartbreak, a breakup, a long waiting season, and a lot of trusting God. I’m sitting down with my best friend Alyssa to interview her about her unexpected love story. I've know Alyssa from all the way back to my LA days. Alyssa shares her incredible love story with her fiancé, Regan. What makes their story so powerful is that it wasn’t a straight path. Alyssa and Reagan met at church and dated for several months before realizing the relationship wasn’t healthy at the time. Even though they loved each other, they chose to walk away. During the year they were apart, Alyssa focused on seeking the Lord through prayer, fasting, journaling, and community—even when it was painful. Eventually, God redeems it. Listen for the full story! This episode is a reminder that God’s timing is different from ours, but when we surrender our relationships to Him, He can redeem and restore in ways we never expected. In This Episode 01:00 – Meeting My Best Friend Alyssa in an LA Bible Study 04:00 – First Impressions & How Our Friendship Started 07:00 – Dating in LA & Watching Each Other’s Relationships 10:50 – How Alyssa Met Reagan at Church 14:00 – Their First Relationship & Why They Broke Up 17:00 – Navigating a Painful Breakup in the Same Community 21:00 – Praying, Waiting, and Trusting God in the Unknown 31:00 – When Reagan Came Back & What Changed 42:50 – The Proposal, Engagement & God’s Redemption Follow Alyssa! Thanks to Our Sponsors BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at ⁠betterhelp.com/HAPPYHEALTHY⁠ and get on your way to being your best self. Ritual Vitamins: Visit ritual.com/healthy to get 25% off your first month. Lean: Visit Takelean.com and use code HEALTHY to get 20% off Wayfair: Get organized, refreshed, and back on track this new year for WAY less. Head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠Wayfair.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ right now to shop all things home. If you’d like to partner with Jeanine as a sponsor for the Happy & Healthy podcast, fill out our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Advertise With Us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ form! Follow us on Instagram!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Happy and Healthy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeanine⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeanine and Kaleb⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on TikTok! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Happy and Healthy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeanine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	There are Christians out there who spend years thinking that they're broken or failing God because they're struggling with unwanted, distressing thoughts. I'm talking about the thoughts that interrupt worship. Will God forgive me if I make a mistake in my prayer? I need to start over and do it perfectly. Or blasphemous images that pop into your head and make you feel like you've sin for just thinking them. Unwanted thoughts like these aren't a spiritual failure. They could be due to a common
0:21.7	but overlooked condition, religious OCD. Religious OCD, also known as scrupulosity OCD, can turn your faith
0:28.4	into a source of constant guilt, doubt, and fear. But because OCD is still widely misunderstood,
0:33.9	a lot of people don't even know that it can focus on their faith. That's why it is so important
0:38.0	to know that OCD isn't just about being neat or organized like the stereotypes suggest. OCD latches
0:44.0	onto what you care about most, causing a cycle of distressing intrusive thoughts and behaviors done to get
0:48.6	rid of the anxiety they create, like praying until it feels just right, repeatedly confessing
0:53.9	the same sin, or trying to
0:55.8	figure out your thoughts. Any relief from these behaviors is short-lived so the cycle keeps going.
1:01.4	Religious OCD isn't something to be ashamed of or suffer from in silence. It's a common type of
1:06.1	OCD, and it's highly treatable with the right kind of specialized therapy, and that's where
1:10.2	no CD comes in.
1:11.6	NoCD is the world's leading OCD treatment provider and all their licensed therapists are trained in ERP or exposure and response prevention therapy and the most effective treatment for OCD.
1:21.5	NoCD therapists deeply understand OCD so they know that these thoughts don't mean anything about you.
1:26.9	In live virtual sessions, they'll help you break free from OCD's grip while honoring your faith
1:30.9	so you can get back to focusing on what matters most.
1:33.6	NoCD is covered by insurance for over 138 million Americans, and they provide support between
1:38.8	sessions so you're never alone.
1:40.3	If you think you might be struggling with religious OCD, don't wait.
1:43.9	Head over to nocd.com to book a free 15-minute call with their team today.
1:48.2	That's N-O-C-D.com.
1:50.7	Tell me about your love story because it is a bit, I would say, untraditional.
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from That Sounds Fun Network, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of That Sounds Fun Network and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.