hey the regularly scheduled show will begin in a moment you know I used to do

these at the end of the week back when the major show was on Thursday and

everything else was on mug club I think they were called credit closes which is a

silly name I don't know what we call them now but I have a moment of your time and

you can comment if you want me to do it on Thursday toward the end or like this

today I want to talk about it a topic that just I've been hearing a lot lately or

I guess seeing on the Instagram feed which by the way is toxic it's likely the

worst thing for your mind that's why I always tell you this is just a show tune in

and tune out check the references don't want to be scrolling every day for a

dopamine hit every 35 seconds but I hear this a lot and I don't know that I agree

with it and maybe I'm wrong you hear people say hey you can't love anyone

else until you true until you love yourself self love is most important

because you can't love anybody until you love yourself no my opinion is no and the

reason I think it's been on my heart is I actually think that that can be

destructive advice now look let me be clear you shouldn't hate yourself and this

I believe comes from a biblical prescription of you know if you're forgiven by

God who are you to not forgive yourself you shouldn't hate yourself and you

should strive to I don't want to say love yourself but respect yourself to

become someone worthy of respect but to assume that you or as a blanket

statement that everybody should automatically love themselves that you right

now watch it of the millions of you who will watch this once this is done that

you should love yourself I don't agree with it not to mention there's huge

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