Instantly Read Anyone Like a Spy: How to Know Who’s Safe - And Who’s Dangerous | Andrew Bustamante PT 1

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 20 August 2025

⏱️ 43 minutes

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In this gripping two-part special of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Andrew Bustamante—a former CIA spy specializing in body language, deception, and manipulation—for an unfiltered breakdown of some of Hollywood’s most controversial figures and relationships. Andrew is here to give you real-life spy insight into the signals and cues hidden just beneath the surface, so you never get played—whether by superstar celebrities or by the people standing right beside you. In part 1, Lisa and Andrew start by analyzing Kanye West and Bianca Censori’s much-discussed red carpet appearance, exposing the often-misread lines between protection, control, and narcissism. Then, they move into the wild accusations against Armie Hammer—from alleged cannibalistic fantasies to the public fallout and legal responses—unpacking what the camera doesn't lie about, even when the speakers might. Get ready to learn the tools that can help you decode body language in both your relationships and the public eye. SHOWNOTES00:00 Intro: Can you spot a narcissist or manipulator?04:03 Body language tells: Crotch display, dominance, and vulnerability13:50 Scoring Kanye: How much is controlling, how much is narcissism?24:05 The “feeling” question: Catching real emotions vs. rehearsal34:37 Final verdict: Is Armie Hammer a cannibal or just a bad liar? FOLLOW ANDREW:Website: https://www.everydayspy.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspyTwitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspyYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpy CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy’s: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:03.0	What up my homie? I'm Lisa Bilyu. Welcome to Women of Impact. I'm going to share something
1:07.0	that just happened recently that is on my heart and it makes sense for this episode
1:11.1	to share the story. So recently, someone I had known for almost 10 years who I thought like
1:16.5	family unfortunately betrayed my trust and I went from thinking this person was in my life forever
1:22.8	to what on earth happened. I didn't see this coming, what were the signs, where were they lying
1:28.9	for so long, and all this emotion comes flooding in of what did I miss? How did I miss it? Especially
1:34.1	when I do so many episodes on trust and lying and deception and things like that. So A, I wanted
1:39.6	to share that this just happened to me and I embrace it. I embrace it as part of growing, evolving, changing,
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