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Inspirational Living: Life Lessons for Success & Happiness

Inspirational Life Lessons | Dr. Frank Crane

Inspirational Living: Life Lessons for Success & Happiness

The Living Hour

Education, Spirituality, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Mental Health

4.0804 Ratings

🗓️ 21 November 2019

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Listen to episode 425 of the Inspirational Living podcast: Inspirational Life Lessons | Dr. Frank Crane. Adapted from “If I Were Twenty-One” by Dr. Frank Crane. Motivational Podcast Excerpt: Learn the art of conversation, of small talk. Equip yourself to be able to entertain the grouchiest, most blasé people. For there is hardly a business in the world in which it is not a great advantage to be able to converse entertainingly. The secret of being a good conversationalist is a genuine, unselfish interest in others. That and practice. It consists more in making the other person talk, than in talking yourself. In addition, do not argue. I never knew one person in my life that was convinced by argument. Discuss, yes; but not argue. The difference is this: in discussion you are searching for the truth, and in argument you want to prove that you are right. In discussion, therefore, you are anxious to know your neighbor’s views, and you listen to them. In argument, you don’t care anything about the other person’s opinions, you want them to hear yours; hence, while they are talking, you are simply thinking over what you are going to say as soon as you get a chance. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/inspirational-living/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Inspiration Living podcast, brought to you in part by Book of Zen,

0:17.5

makers of wearable inspiration for a better world.

0:29.2

Today's podcast has been edited and adapted from If I Were 21 by Dr. Frank Crane, published in 1917.

0:44.4

I have climbed the hill of life, and am past the summit, I suppose,

0:48.6

and perhaps it may help those just venturing the first incline,

0:52.3

to know what I think I would do if I had to do it all over again.

0:57.0

I have lived an average life. I have had the same kind of follies, fears, and fires that most have had. I have failed often and bitterly.

1:05.0

I have loved and hated, lost in one, done some good deeds in many bad ones.

1:11.6

I have had some measure of success, and I have made about every kind of mistake there is to make.

1:18.6

In other words, I have lived a full, active, human life, and have got thus far safely along.

1:28.3

I am on the shady side of 50. As people grow older, they accumulate two kinds of spiritual

1:34.3

supplies, one a pile of doubts, questionings and mysteries, and the other a much smaller pile

1:42.3

of positive conclusions.

1:48.8

There is a great temptation to expound upon the former subjects,

1:53.8

for negative and critical statements have a seductive appearance of depth,

1:59.2

and much more of a flavor of wisdom than clear and succinct declarations.

2:05.0

But I will endeavor to resist this temptation and will set down as concisely as I can some of the positive convictions I have gained. The first duty of a human

2:14.0

being in this world is to take themselves off other people's backs.

2:18.3

I would go to work at something for which my fellow citizens would be willing to pay.

2:24.3

I would not wait for an ideal job. The only ideal job I've ever heard of was the one some other person had.

2:33.3

While it is quite important to find the best thing to do, it is much more important to find something to do.

2:42.0

For example, if I were a young artist, I would paint soap advertisements if that were all opportunity offered,

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