Insecure Men & Childhood Trauma w/ Brooke Schofield
Daddy Issues with Violet Benson
Violet Benson
4.7 • 4.2K Ratings
🗓️ 18 January 2024
⏱️ 75 minutes
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Summary
Hey Besties! Ever dealt with a guy who thinks he's a dating maestro, juggling messages with multiple girls at once? Ugh, the worst! Can't we have one guy who's actually committed to making a girl feel special?
In today's episode, Violetta gets real with Brooke Schofield, co-host of Cancelled with Tana Mongeau. They spill the tea on Matt Rife's questionable dating tactics (seriously, bro?), but the conversation takes a deep turn as Brooke opens up about her challenging childhood with two drug-addicted parents. Brooke shares her journey dealing with borderline personality disorder, revealing the power of self-healing and finding stability through medication. It's a rollercoaster of real talk and genuine connection—tune in, Besties!
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What to Listen For:
- 00:00 Intro
- 00:51 What’s your hidden talent that no one knows about?
- 02:53 Did you go to college?
- 05:12 What piece of advice have you recently heard?
- 06:19 Why do you want to manifest a healthy relationship?
- 12:26 Is Matt Rife the one that got away?
- 13:38 What would be your star rating for Matt Rife?
- 17:16 I never see the red flags
- 19:15 What did you learn so far that you want in a partner?
- 22:07 What’s the most pivotal moment in your life that shaped you today?
- 23:58 What made 2022 a terribly low year?
- 26:30 A horrible breakup packed with deceit and lying
- 29:43 I was so miserable, I needed help
- 30:48 What is borderline personality disorder?
- 33:53 Did you feel a sense of relief when you were on medication?
- 35:42 How do you slowly get out of a dark place?
- 42:56 What do people assume when you have borderline personality disorder?
- 45:00 What advice do you have for those who aren’t taking medication?
- 49:30 Why do I struggle with therapy?
- 53:02 Growing up in family with two drug addict parents
- 56:34 I stayed with my grandparents and never got picked up
- 59:40 My mom helped me get through the toughest time
- 01:02:11 How do you deal with guilt?
- 01:04:12 Our parents are just like us when they were our age
- 01:06:53 Upcoming tour with Tana and Brooke
Connect with Brooke on:
- https://www.tiktok.com/@brookeschofield1
- https://twitter.com/broookeamber
- https://www.youtube.com/@BrookeSchofield1
- Cancelled with Tana Mongeau podcast
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | You're doing your friends and your loved ones at the service in your life if you don't share the pain with them because they want to be there for you. |
| 0:07.0 | Had I probably just been more vocal about how I was feeling in a lot of moments like growing up especially it helps everybody understand you better and like can react to how you're reacting better. |
| 0:17.0 | The following podcast is a dear media production. |
| 0:20.0 | It's vile events and your favorite meme queen and the big sit you didn't ask for but see |
| 0:24.8 | welcome to almost adulting. |
| 0:28.2 | Are you ready? |
| 0:33.0 | ready. |
| 0:34.0 | Hi best season, welcome to a brand new almost adulting, the largest self-help |
| 0:38.0 | podcast and movement, your number one destination for personal growth and mental health. |
| 0:42.0 | I am your big sister and your |
| 0:44.3 | host violetta and today my amazing special guest is Brooke Schofield and she was |
| 0:51.4 | born on November 26 she's a satch from Arizona. She's a |
| 0:54.8 | YouTuber and a podcast host of the popular podcast called |
| 0:58.6 | cancelled with her co-host Tana. Okay I always sayana Manjo, even though I know that's not her last name. |
| 1:05.2 | It's close, mojo. |
| 1:06.6 | Oh, what's a hidden talent that you would say you have that no one knows about. Ooh, I can remember songs like so easy. |
| 1:17.0 | Like I can hear a song one time and I can know all the words to the song. |
| 1:20.0 | But I'm not good in remembering anything else. |
| 1:22.0 | Oh, really? That is kind of a talent. |
| 1:24.8 | Yeah that's the only hidden talent I have. My hidden talent is that I'm |
| 1:29.3 | surprisingly average and everything. everything. |
| 1:33.0 | Okay. |
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