Welcome to Mary's Day podcast. I'm Jimmy Evans. This is my wife, Karen. This podcast

exists to help every couple succeed in marriage. And the day Karen, we're talking about inhibitors

to intimacy in marriage. The things that, you know, intimacy is the prize. That's what

we want. But there are things that happen in our marriage that keep us from the end of

this. We're going to go to the teaching that I'm doing here in just a few minutes. But

before we do that, we're going to answer some questions from you guys, some of our viewers.

And I'm going to read this one to you, first of all. It says, it feels like my husband

has lost interest in me in our marriage. We're acting more like roommates at this point

in our lives. Is there anything I can do to get his attention? That's a good question.

Well, besides walking into the room completely naked. Well, that's a good idea. But, you

know, I think probably I would start with communication, you know, because that's one

of the hardest things in a marriage is good communication. And if your communication is

not good, if you're not talking about how you're feeling, if you're not talking about

the needs you have, and, you know, and so I would suggest just sitting down and having

just a normal conversation of like you, you and I do, we say all the time, is there

anything I can do to improve? Is there something that I'm not doing? Are you okay? You

know, and, you know, just have those important questions of how do you think we're doing

right now in our marriage? Well, they're obviously not okay. No. I mean, you know, if he's

ignoring her, basically, he's not okay. He could be distracted. He could be offended.

You know, he could be tempted. He could be maybe has an offense. Maybe he's not, hasn't

forgiven for something. Yeah, I think you're exactly right. I think talking and just face

to face talking. The other thing Karen that we talk about is redemptive love. And that's

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