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Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
4.5 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 31 December 2021
⏱️ 180 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, serving listeners. It's just me today. As many of you know, I have been |
| 0:04.2 | dedicating myself to answering all of your emailed questions by the end of |
| 0:08.6 | the year. And it is the last day of the year today. It is New Year's Eve, |
| 0:12.9 | December 31st, 2021. So it's my last chance to answer all of your emailed |
| 0:19.0 | questions. So let's get into it. This first email is from listener Melissa from |
| 0:23.7 | Utah. She says, you've been advocating a lot that it's always |
| 0:29.0 | appropriate for people to cry. I had an ex who seemed to cry at the top at the |
| 0:33.7 | drop of a hat anytime I wouldn't do what he wanted. For example, if I wanted to |
| 0:37.9 | spend time with my family or go out with my friends instead of talking to him |
| 0:41.1 | on the phone all night, he would stop hysterically. It was a long distance |
| 0:45.4 | relationship and we were both adults in our 20s. Looking back, I really feel like |
| 0:49.3 | he did it because he worked and because it worked and not because he felt |
| 0:54.0 | sad, but I'm wondering what you think. Can people use crying as a manipulative |
| 0:58.7 | tactic end of email? Well, the first thing is, yeah, |
| 1:02.3 | absolute answer is absolutely. Some people can and will use crying as a |
| 1:07.5 | manipulative tactic. All you have to do is watch young children to realize that |
| 1:12.8 | and sound like children are that different from adults. |
| 1:16.4 | You know, not all children are going to do this, but you know, most do, |
| 1:20.0 | if not all, at some point. And some kids use it a lot, you know, when they're |
| 1:25.2 | three, four, five years old, they'll learn that if they cry, |
| 1:28.7 | they can get people to do what they want, even though they're not |
| 1:31.6 | particularly sad. But anyway, so yes, the answer is yes, some people can use. But I |
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