"In Your Neediness, You Repel" - External Validation 101
Big Conversations with Haley Hoffman Smith
Haley Hoffman Smith
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🗓️ 24 December 2024
⏱️ 31 minutes
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Let's talk about neediness, completion energy, and the REAL core source of the validation we seek -- and, the energetic implications of the need for external validation. I hope some major breakthroughs are sparked!
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January 2025 | External Validation Month Programming
External Validation: As Within, So Without | Saturday, January 11th 2:30-4:00pm ET | We all desire external validation in numerous forms - in our relationships, in our careers, in posting online - it's human! However, dependence upon external validation can create a lot of pain and a deep emotional void. How many times have you stopped yourself from doing something because you didn't get external validation? How many times have you done something that wasn't authentic to SEEK external validation? In this highly potent 90-minute session, we'll be healing the External Validation wound and turning it all inward - because the more we feel totally complete on our own and can validate ourselves, the more peace we feel, and the more validation we attract (but we don't even need it anymore!).
Money Date: Scarcity Detox [Abundance & Serenity This Year & Beyond] | We've all been there - that feeling of NEEDING money and being in scarcity energy. And, the more scarce we feel, the more scarcity we attract! NO MORE! In this money date, we'll be addressing those feelings head on and detoxing them, to come to a space of total money serenity for the year ahead. The more at peace we feel, the more abundance flows in!
Visualization: VALIDATION IV | In this powerful visualization, you'll be led 'living in the end' style to truly FEEL the emotional impact of the validation you seek. What if you can create those same feelings within? The brain can't tell the difference between a real and an imagined experience, and this will prime your brain to believe you're already receiving the validation that may seem scarce in your day-to-day life. As within, so without…get ready for some energetic changes as a result. PSSST - you're actually only ever seeking your own validation anyway. | Tuesday, January 14th at 4:00pm ET
Bonus Session: WORRY ERASER | Monday, January 27th 7-8pm ET - Let's create deep feelings of peace. Show up to this bonus session ready to let worry dissolve, disappear, and fade away, because what if everything is taken care of? Mindset experts say to dissolve the problem, turn your attention away from it. This is hard when our subconscious minds are hyper focused on incessant worrying to try to keep us safe. When we tap on our worries, not only do we feel SO much better, but we expedite the Best Case Scenario unfolding.
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| 0:00.0 | the pathway to your true happiness and freedom and completion and fulfillment is being able |
| 0:04.5 | to give yourself the validation you're seeking so much from others. |
| 0:08.4 | Hello, my friends. |
| 0:09.7 | You're listening to the Big Conversations podcast. |
| 0:12.5 | I'm your host, Haley Hoffman Smith, and I am a subconscious breakthrough coach, a content |
| 0:16.2 | creator, and a singer-songwriter who is obsessed with all things spirituality, rewiring your subconscious mind, |
| 0:21.9 | receiving guidance from the universe, finding our highest vibration, and manifesting the life of our dreams. |
| 0:27.5 | You're in the right place if you're ready to tap into the magic that's been waiting for you all |
| 0:31.1 | along, find deeper clarity on what's unfolding in your beautiful life, deepen your faith in the |
| 0:35.7 | universe, and learn the tools to |
| 0:37.5 | accelerate your inherent power. So let's get started with this week's big conversation. |
| 0:45.1 | Hello, my loves. Welcome back to big conversations and happy end of 2024 or whenever you're |
| 0:51.6 | listening to this, whenever this episode decides to divinely find you. |
| 0:55.8 | Welcome. I have named this episode a little snippet of one of my favorite quotes of all time |
| 1:02.1 | by Abraham Hicks, which the full quote is, in your neediness, you repel, in your completeness, |
| 1:09.4 | you attract. |
| 1:12.3 | Woo! |
| 1:15.9 | I swear, every single time I've ever heard that quote, I'm like, all right, all right, |
| 1:16.9 | bring it home, bring it home. |
| 1:21.5 | And that's what this episode is about, but we're going to take it from the standpoint of neediness in terms of needing something outside of you, specifically with external validation, |
| 1:27.1 | which can be expressed in many a way. |
| 1:29.5 | Whatever it is that you feel like it is that you're needing outside of you right now, |
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