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Coach Corey Wayne

If You Want Her To Stick Around Long Term, She Must Feel Like You Care

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 19 May 2026

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeCasual hookups have a time expiration if you make her feel like you don’t care.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who says he failed to escalate properly from casual dating into a relationship. He treated a woman he’d been casually hooking up with like he didn’t care. She wanted to do something for valentines day and he blew her off to study. She got drunk and hooked up with another guy. Things went sideways and they haven’t spoken in 2 months.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's

0:05.8

newsletter is going to be. If you want her to stick around long term, she must feel like you care.

0:13.4

So this particular email is from a viewer who basically said he failed to escalate properly

0:18.8

from casual dating into a relationship. So he was dating her for

0:24.9

about four months and like most women she says, well, I'm just, I'm just want something casual,

0:31.2

I'm not looking for a relationship. But over time, as her interest started to slowly creep up on her, she wanted a little bit more.

0:40.4

And then Valentine's Day comes around and she basically reaches out hinting that she'd like to do something for Valentine's Day.

0:47.1

And he's basically like, oh yeah, I got to study.

0:49.2

I'm busy.

0:49.7

Let's get together next week.

0:52.1

And so she ends up getting drunk and hooking up with some other dude

0:56.8

and then tells him and obviously he's not happy. Then he ends it because he kind of acts like

1:01.6

they're supposedly in a relationship when it was just strictly a friends with benefits type of thing.

1:07.8

Neither one of them were trying to lock the other one down and then

1:12.3

he tried to get her to commit and get into a relationship and now they're basically in no

1:17.7

contact he hasn't even spoken to her in two months so just i mean if you're going to do friends

1:22.9

of benefits or keep a rotation girl you got to understand that at some point it's got a time limit

1:29.0

on it.

1:30.0

And especially if you act like you don't care, like it's just about sex and hook it up,

1:35.7

which is basically the way this guy behaved.

1:38.0

He really didn't care until he found out she hooked up with some other guy and started backing away because she had lost interest.

1:48.0

So these things are going to happen. You cannot act like a zombie forever and expect a woman to stick around.

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