Pastor Mark here, a special, special, special series of conversations with my wife, Grace.

We've been married faithfully 31 years.

And I'm in a series right now, leave and cleave on family systems and how to architect your immediate and extended family to bless your marriage and children for generations.

It's basically what to do and what not to do.

In addition to the sermons, you can find at realfaith.com slash cleave.

I've got a special four-part series with my wife Grace where we talk about this very practically

and share from our own marriage and experience.

And so I really hope you enjoy it.

And again, you can find all the content, including the workbook, along with the sermons,

real faith.com slash cleave, C-L-EA-A-V-E.

All right, Mark and Grace Triscoll here, back with the Real Marriage podcast, and we're doing

a series of episodes, Leave and Cleave.

Genesis 224, those two words, leave your mother and father so you can cleave with your spouse.

They become your extended family, and now you are a new

family so we're gonna do with cut off in this episode so back to the handy

dandy whiteboard give what you pay for this is a low-tech operation so we

looked at in the last episode I probably should have you do this,

you got way better penwomenhip than I do.

In meshments, cut off, there's tension here.

And then we'll call this differentiation.

We'll hit this in the last episode.

So these are the three options, healthy and unhealthy, when you are going to form a family and

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