Pastor Mark here, a special, special series of conversations with my wife Grace.

We've been married faithfully 31 years and in a series right now, Cleave on family systems and how to architect

your immediate and extended family to bless your marriage and children for

generations. It's basically what to do and what not to do. It's basically what to do and what not to do.

In addition to the sermons, you can find at real faith.com

slash cleave, I've got a special four-part series with my wife Grace where we talk about this very practically

and share from our own marriage and experience.

And so I really hope you enjoy it and again you can find all the content including the workbook along with the sermons

Real Faith.com slash cleave

C-L-E-A-V-E.

All right Mark and Grace Strisskel here, back with the Real Marriage Podcast, and we're doing a series of episodes,

Leave and Cleave.

Genesis 224, those two words, leave your mother. leave and

cleave Genesis 224 those two words leave your mother and father so you can cleave with your

spouse they become your extended family and now you are a new family. So we're going to deal with cutoff in this episode.

So back to the handy-dandy whiteboard. Give what you pay for? This is a low-tech operation.

So we looked at in the last episode I

probably should have you do this you got way better pen-womanship than I do

investment cut-off that I do. In meshments, cut off, there's tension here, and then we'll call this differentiation.

We'll get this in the last episode.

So these are the three options, healthy and unhealthy, when you are going to form a family

and you're newly married.

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