If You Feel Like You're Falling Behind, Listen To This
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 19 December 2023
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
I'm joined by Beth Gulotta, LMHC, Founder and Owner of NYC Therapeutic Wellness, and host of Quiet The Clock Podcast. Beth and I discuss the societal pressures that many women face to meet their person, settle down, and have children all by a certain age. We hear how Beth met her now-husband at 34 and why she's glad she didn't meet him any sooner. We discuss why we should challenge society's expectations and pave our paths, how to overcome the feeling that you're falling behind, what to do if you feel like you're in a different life stage than your friends, and what we wish we could tell our single selves.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:10.0 | Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing |
| 0:14.9 | their stories. Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even |
| 0:20.3 | cry along with us as we navigate the dating |
| 0:22.3 | scene together. You guys, I couldn't be more excited for today's conversation and today's |
| 0:27.4 | guest. We have Beth Golata on the podcast. Beth, welcome to seeing other people. |
| 0:32.9 | Thank you so much. I'm so excited to be here. I always love the opportunity to be in the other |
| 0:37.1 | seat. So thank you so much for having me. I feel the same way. I'm glad you said that. I'm so excited to be here. I always love the opportunity to be in the other seat. So thank you |
| 0:38.1 | so much for having me. I feel the same way. I'm glad you said that. I actually enjoy being |
| 0:42.5 | interviewed more than I enjoy interviewing. And maybe there's some psychological thing about |
| 0:48.3 | that, how we love talking about ourselves. But I feel the same way. So I'm glad that you get this |
| 0:53.0 | time to be on the other side. |
| 0:55.6 | Well, thanks for giving me this time. I honestly don't love talking about myself as a therapist. |
| 0:59.0 | I'm used to listening to other people, but I think for me, podcasting is so new and there's |
| 1:04.9 | this pressure to do justice to everybody's stories. So I think I put that pressure on myself, |
| 1:09.7 | but I do like being in the |
| 1:12.6 | seat. The pressure feels a little off. Well, I want to talk about that. That's actually something I was |
| 1:16.7 | excited to have a conversation about. First and foremost, you are a licensed mental health counselor. |
| 1:23.5 | You are the owner and founder of NYC Therapeutic. I can't speak. NYC Therapeutic Wellness. And you are the host of the podcast Quiet, The Clock, which I think every single person listening to this would benefit from listening to. There's so much, you're doing such important and incredible work. But I do want to talk about as a therapist, you are opening up in a public way and sharing parts of yourself and your story. |
| 1:49.1 | And I feel like historically, that was either taboo or somewhat frowned upon, but it's becoming more of a common thing now. |
| 1:57.6 | And I'm curious what that transition was like for you or what led you to start doing it |
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