And as Zen she says,

Flower does not think about competing with the flower next to it.

It just blooms.

And that's really your job is to see the outside world,

to see the flower next to you,

to understand the amazing things that are happening all around you,

all of the incredible people and the essence of what they have,

and what it is that they've done to bring inside yourself and find out

what does that look like when it's me?

Not what do I look like when I'm them?

And once you understand the difference between that

then you can really begin to be something unique,

you can become that thing that you were meant to be,

that thing that makes you feel alive and whole.

And that's it, that's the secret.

You're just trying to be something

not that's just inspiring to other people,

but that you actually want to wake up every day and be.

And that's the thing about it.

So escaping you, whatever you become,

alive, the truth, somebody else yourself,

whatever it is,

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