"If" to "When"

Excel Still More

Kris Emerson

Education, Jesus, Best, Self-improvement, Spiritual, Christianity, Achieve, Grow, Increase, Health & Fitness, Excel, Religion & Spirituality, Goals, Faith

4.9 • 798 Ratings

🗓️ 28 February 2022

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Reach Out: Please include your email and I will get back to you. Thanks! I apologize. I have used some epic cover art from Tombstone: Say When. I found this after the episode and wished I had mixed in Doc Holliday at some point! But as it is, I want to focus on the value of saying WHEN in conflict resolution and especially in authority relationships. Many parents use the IF / THEN construct with their kids. If you don't do this, then... And it builds in an extra layer of conflict to th...

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Excel Stillmore podcast. I am your host, Chris Emerson. I'm here to encourage you in your walk with God. Thank you for joining in.
0:14.9	Today's podcast is sponsored by Cunningham Financial Group. John Cunningham is a friend of mine and a brother in Christ, and he can help you with financial
0:25.3	decisions and future planning.
0:27.6	He's been a big help to me and my family, and I commend him to you.
0:30.9	You can reach him at 205-913-1720.
0:41.3	I am so thankful you're here, so let's get started.
0:51.0	Hey, welcome back. I am thankful that you've joined in today. I think I may be a little more excited today than usual, mainly because all of today's content was totally
0:56.2	unplanned and unexpected and is developing relevance and results in my life real time, like last
1:05.4	night and today. So I have that double great feeling going right now that says, hey, this little change in my language to others, especially my kids, is already bearing good results.
1:18.2	And then, of course, I always love getting to share ideas with you that I really believe will help.
1:23.4	So here's how this all came together.
1:25.5	Yesterday, I'm on my way to the office to record an episode.
1:29.0	I had the idea all fleshed out in my mind. I don't ever use notes or scripts or anything, but I was good to go.
1:36.1	But just before I started recording, I thought I would take a few minutes and look at Yahoo.
1:40.9	I was going to try to read up a little bit on the Ukraine situation, so I don't sound like
1:46.0	a total idiot when people ask me about it. But right up near the top, just under the Russia
1:51.1	crisis, was a Yahoo article about a parenting counselor who is also apparently a big TikTok star.
1:59.7	She has three quarters of a million followers. Her name is
2:03.3	Tia Slydom. If you are on TikTok, you can find her at Parenting Coach. Anyway, the title of the
2:11.7	Yahoo article was this. Parenting Coach says, using when instead of of if will decrease struggles with kids.
2:21.2	And that title immediately drew my attention.
2:23.9	Firstly, because I believe that improving the manner in which we communicate with other people
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