On today's episode, I wanted to talk about this concept of someone making things clear when

they fucking want you, someone making things clear when they actually want to be with you

and they actually want to commit to you and get to know you better, you will know someone

likes you.

And I know I've said this on many episodes, but it's true.

You will know if someone has feelings for you, cares about you, wants to see you, wants

to spend time with you, because they're going to make that clear and obvious.

Now, obviously in the beginning of a dating situation, people can get nervous, people

have nerves, people have anxiety, people might be a little shy and standoffish because

I know I get that way when I start to crush on someone, when I start to really like someone

and care for them, sometimes I become a little avoidant because I'm nervous.

And that's normal.

The first few dates, understandable.

However, if you've been talking to someone for several months to several years and they

still have not made any signs of commitment, if they still have not made any signs of

wanting to see you on a consistent basis, if they're still being flaky, if they don't

respond to your texts for days at a time, if they choose other plans over your plans 24

seven, if they blow you off easily with no remorse, there's so many different variations

of this, they don't fucking like you.

And it's a hard pill to swallow sometimes because when feelings are involved, when we're

attracted to someone, when we know we have a good connection with them, we want to force

things because we can't help ourselves.

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