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If Someone Doesn’t Like Me, Have I Ruined My Christian Witness?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

Christianity, Pastor, John Piper, Theology, Ask, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Desiring God, 163859, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

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🗓️ 23 August 2017

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

When is it right to please people? When is it wrong to please people? Motive matters.

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Well, the best emails we get are questions that put concrete words to what otherwise floats

0:08.6

in the back of our minds as sort of an abstract question that we can't really put our finger

0:13.2

on.

0:14.2

Here's a question today about whether being popular and well-liked or crucial to our

0:19.2

gospel witness and it comes from a listener named Jacob.

0:23.3

Pastor John, am I wrong if people around me don't like me?

0:27.8

Because being unliked by others make me a bad representative of Christ.

0:33.5

We can't be people pleasers all the time or we will be pushovers and at what point has

0:37.4

our seeking to be accepted by people, compromised our faithfulness to God.

0:42.5

Pastor John, what would you say to Jacob?

0:44.9

I think what might be helpful to do in answer to Jacob's question is to illustrate for

0:51.5

him how from scriptures he might go about answering his own question.

0:59.5

And I hope in doing it this way really a hundred questions of this nature and lots of

1:07.9

natures might be answered in the sense that people will realize that all John Piper

1:14.9

does to get ready for these little ten minute talks is to open my Bible and find some

1:26.5

scriptures that come close to relating to the issue and think about them and then put

1:31.3

my thoughts down.

1:32.7

Frankly, I think most people who listen to a P.J., that's a particular kind of people,

1:40.0

to do this if they were encouraged actually to work at it, so I'm doing, I'm encouraging

1:45.8

you.

1:46.8

You could do this, you could have your own little APJ or APP or whatever.

1:54.8

I'd like to empower you to do that, so just watch now.

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