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Coach Corey Wayne

If She Tells You That She’s Messed Up, Believe Her

Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.6532 Ratings

🗓️ 12 September 2024

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos, full viewer questions podcasts & The 3% Man & Mastering Yourself Study Group Podcasts with the girls where we discuss the content of both books in depth:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeIf a girl you’re dating tells you she’s messed up you should believe her and let her go.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 26 year old viewer who was dating a 23 year old woman for about 8 months. She kept telling him that she lacked confidence and was a little screwed up. She dumped him after 4 months saying she was too messed up to have a relationship. Then a few days later she came back and asked for another chance. She kept acting wacky and eventually he dumped her. She keeps calling and wants another chance, but he’s tired of her nonsense and asks my opinion.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:http://bit.ly/CCW3ManHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:http://bit.ly/CCWMYHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1

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0:00.0

Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter.

0:03.9

And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be, if she tells you that she's messed up,

0:09.0

believe her.

0:10.0

Well, if you guys are familiar with Maya Angelou's work once she, she had a really great quote

0:17.5

that she said, which went like this, when somebody tells you who they are,

0:23.0

believe them the first time. So this particular email is from a guy, he's 26 years old, and he was

0:30.1

dating a 23-year-old woman for about eight months. And even since the beginning, when they were dating,

0:36.2

she kept telling him that she lacked confidence, and she was basically a little screwed up.

0:41.3

And so after about four months of dating, she kind of got overwhelmed, broke things off and basically said she's just too messed up to have a relationship.

0:50.3

And he's like, all right, well, I'm not going to fight it. Sorry you feel that way.

0:56.1

Call me if you change your mind. And then a few days later, she comes back, begging for another

1:00.8

chance, very apologetic. But she's, the wacky behavior never really went away. She's

1:08.8

incredibly insecure, doubts herself, and this issue just kept

1:13.1

rear in its head. And then recently, same thing happened again. She just has a meltdown after

1:20.1

she was introducing him to a lot of her friends and family. And she was saying things like,

1:25.0

oh, once you really get to know me and see what my friends and my family are like,

1:28.3

you're not going to want anything to do with me anyways.

1:31.0

And then so he was like, after all this back and forth,

1:34.4

because this is not like something that just happened.

1:36.3

It's just kind of the whole relationship is like this.

1:39.3

So he got annoyed and was just because he's worn out at this point.

1:44.4

And so he breaks things off with her.

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