If She Calls You Clingy You Probably Turned Her Off

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 24 February 2026

⏱️ 13 minutes

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's
0:05.7	newsletter is going to be. If she calls you clingy, you probably turned her off. So this is an
0:13.5	email from a viewer who admits he kind of gets a little dopey when he really likes a girl and so
0:19.8	he met this girl and they ended up hooking up on their third date.
0:23.7	And then he kind of got a little dopey after they had sex.
0:27.5	And she said something in effected, oh, I didn't realize you were so clingy.
0:32.8	That's not good when a woman says that to you.
0:35.6	So when a woman says that, and especially if she disappears,
0:41.3	then usually what it means is they've dated enough guys like you. In other words, you're getting
0:46.6	a little dopey, you're wanting a relationship, you're wanting more, they're not feeling the same
0:51.5	thing, and they know that if they continue seeing you and hanging out with you, that you're going to get hooked.
0:58.0	You're going to get really clingy.
0:59.6	And you become a stage five clinger and you'll be hard to get rid of.
1:04.0	And so in order to avoid all that drama, they just poof.
1:08.8	They ghost and they're gone with the wind.
1:13.4	So he messaged her that afternoon after they hooked up and she never read or responded
1:18.5	to the message.
1:19.7	And he says, again, he tends to reveal too much interest when he really likes the girl
1:23.2	to the point where, again, if a woman, because you got to understand, the average woman has been through this so many times they date a girl, her date a guy, maybe hook up with them, and then the guy gets dopey and he gets a little clinging, a little possessive, starts thinking they're going to be boyfriend, girlfriend, and in her mind, they're just casually hanging out, having fun, and hooking up. And because they've been through it so many times with other guys that are just a pain
1:46.2	in the ass to get rid of, as soon as they get a sniff or a whiff that you're clinging and
1:51.7	needy and you're going to cause drama and be difficult to get rid of, they just dip before
1:56.9	it goes any further because they know it's just not worth it.
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