If Narcissists are so afraid of losing you, why don't they treat you better?
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 29 August 2025
⏱️ 13 minutes
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If Narcissists are so afraid of losing you, why don't they treat you better?
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| 0:00.0 | So if narcissists are so afraid of losing you, then why don't they just treat you better? |
| 0:06.7 | Why don't they just go above and beyond to try to keep you there instead of just belittling you, lying to you, cheating on you? |
| 0:14.2 | The whole works, right? |
| 0:16.1 | That's what we're talking about today, y'all. |
| 0:17.7 | Of course, if you knew here, my name is Lee Hammack. |
| 0:19.5 | I'm a diagnosed narcissist myself. And welcome to another episode of the Narcissist Code Welcome back, folks, welcome back, welcome back. |
| 0:43.1 | Yes, the narcissist and the behaviors. |
| 0:48.4 | Why don't they just, if they are so afraid of you leaving, if they don't want to be alone, then why don't they just |
| 0:56.4 | treat you better? Why don't they just take the extra step in being nice to you? Why don't |
| 1:02.1 | they just be kind to you? Why don't they just be respectful to you? Why? Why? Those are the |
| 1:07.5 | type of questions I get so much on my channel, y'all. So many people ask me that question or some similar version of that question, right? |
| 1:15.7 | I simply tell them a lot of narcissists are not afraid of losing you. |
| 1:20.4 | Now, are there some that absolutely want you to stay there? |
| 1:25.5 | Are there some that have a deathly fear of you leaving them and you being with someone |
| 1:30.6 | else and you being living happily ever after with someone else? |
| 1:33.5 | Do those narcissists exist? |
| 1:36.1 | Yes. |
| 1:36.9 | Those narcissists absolutely exist. |
| 1:39.0 | They are out there somewhere waiting on you. |
| 1:41.5 | They're out there somewhere, right? |
| 1:43.0 | They're not, they might not be right in front of you, but they're out there somewhere, right? They're not, they might not be right in front of you, |
| 1:45.1 | but they're out there somewhere, right? |
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