If It Didn’t Work The 1st Time You Dated, It Probably Won’t Work
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 23 November 2025
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhy relationships that didn’t work the 1st time around probably won’t work if you try again.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 28 year old viewer who broke up with his girlfriend because she was rude, disrespectful and dishonest. She immediately begged for another chance. He gave it to her only for her to dump him and say it was his fault. He wonders if she will come back and if she does if it would ever work based upon their history.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter, and the topic of today's |
| 0:05.8 | newsletter is going to be, if it didn't work the first time you dated, it probably won't work. |
| 0:12.6 | Well, you may have heard me say that people typically don't change who they are, but they may |
| 0:18.3 | become a better version of who they are. However, character being destiny, |
| 0:25.2 | somebody who is a low character person, lies, cheats, dishonesty, deception, they typically just |
| 0:34.7 | become better at hiding it. You don't take a patently dishonest person and all |
| 0:42.7 | a sudden they become honest and loyal and faithful. Typically whatever is modeled for them at home |
| 0:49.5 | when they're growing up is what they're going to grow up to emulate because that's the example |
| 0:54.0 | that was set. |
| 0:54.7 | That becomes their normal. |
| 0:57.5 | Typically women that come from broken homes are extremely difficult to have a good, healthy, |
| 1:03.6 | normal, monogamous relationship that's easygoing and she's easy to get along with. |
| 1:09.5 | Usually those kind of women that come out of those situations and actually make good partners, |
| 1:15.5 | it's only because they did the work on themselves. |
| 1:18.6 | And since most people tend to major and minor things, |
| 1:21.1 | very few women from a broken home are willing to do the work that's necessary on themselves |
| 1:26.9 | to make themselves |
| 1:28.2 | good partners. |
| 1:29.8 | And a lot of good dudes drive themselves nuts trying to fix those girls or change them or save |
| 1:36.4 | them or make things work. |
| 1:37.8 | And the reality is if it didn't work the first time around and then you go back or you take |
| 1:41.8 | her back, everything that turns you off about her, it's not like it goes away. It's still there. And a lot of cases were, because rejection breeds obsession, the guy's not really that happy with the girl. He's not really putting his best foot forward anymore. Then all of a sudden she dumps him because rejection breeds obsession. Then he thinks, oh, I lost the love of my life. |
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